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• Hello all, I need some advice. posted (6 months, 3 weeks) ago
  I need to know if I am being over protective, or if I am doing the right thing. So my best friend p…

• I must leave my past behind… as it is the only way to help the ones I care about. posted (11 months) ago
  This girl that I have loved for years and years, that knew I loved her but we still kept it as fri…

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• Hello all, I need some advice.
  

  Ok false flag, it was her boyfriend who sent those messages. I knew I should of stayed back. Now the ***** about to hit the fan. I am really backing off now since he knows that me and kim are talking again.
  - written 6 months, 2 weeks ago

• Hello all, I need some advice.
  

  Well, ends up that in the end I failed. I guess I said too much to her friend about how she gets the nice boyfriend kind of feel from me, and that by backing off so she opens her eyes and wanting her friend to keep an extra eye on her for me. Because the girl I liked, kim was her name, hasn’t been answering my calls or texts for a few days… Well today I got a message from her saying how much she f’in hated me and stuff… And that message could be the only thing that would possibley make her upset at me.
  
  Guess her friend showed her the message… And she didn’t take kindly to it.
  
  ****… I just give up. The love of my life now hates me, and everything else is jus startin to go to ****.
  - written 6 months, 2 weeks ago

• I’ve got 2 bffs and one is realy mean but the other is really nice!
  

  No offense, but I don’t like people who get together with a bunch of guys at once, cause it really hurts the guys in the end.
  
  They may both end up really falling in love with you, and then when the figure out that you are with another guy at the same time, it hurts.
  
  Trust me, I know.
  - written 6 months, 3 weeks ago

• Hello all, I need some advice.
  

  Right on, thanks for all the help with this…mess haha =P
  
  I kind of jumped the gun by writing an email to her friend. Kind of put wayy too much in there, probably won’t go well. But oh well, ill just go with it, see what happens.
  
  Wish I read your post earlier though XD
  
  Kind of told her friend about the whole “Nice boyfriend” plot going on, and how I plan to kind of open her eyes. Probably shouldn’t of said that, should of just told her to keep an extra eye out on her for me. And also open it by saying what you said to say above my post here.
  
  Thanks for the help again! :D
  - written 6 months, 3 weeks ago

• I’m in love with someone.
  

  Is she currently in a relationship? If so, wait till they break up, then move in and be the one that will “rescue her”.
  
  If single, just give it time, I know it hurts just waiting, im going through a long “waiting” process right now, but it will work, trust me.
  - written 6 months, 3 weeks ago

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