Fusion ZX's reply history at Help.com

It may or may not be my place to speak, as im not sure how you are doing right now. But no matter what way you feel you need to live life through and see it through the end. Let’s say for a minute that there is no after life and there is only the now. This is why it’s so important to live life now while you are able to. You have to put aside of what may not work out and go out and live the way you are meant to. Just because you feel down or something wrong happened is no excuse to drag through the rest of your life. You have to decide at the beginning of the day wheather you are going to be happy or sad. Say to yourself in the beginning that you are going to be happy and nothing is going to stop you, see past all that comes against you and go through. You sound like an intelligent woman, im sure you know what im trying to say. Deep down you don’t really want to die, you want to continue but can’t seem to find a reason to. The thing is we have to make our own reasons for living, don’t just let life pass you by. It would be too late when you wait for awhile and finally realise that you have to do what you can while you can, and even when things don’t work out you don’t give up and you keep trying, if one way dosen’t work then find another. I hope you really do understand and I hope to get to speak with you one day.

Understand that bad things are bound to happen but they can be minimized by simply concentrating on the positives more and deal with the negative as soon as they appear for the longer you ignore it the worse it’s going to get.

The main point in having a dream is the hope that it will come true. It’s better to exist in reallity then in a dream because when you awaken from a dream your dreams are gone except for in your memory but in reallity the dreams are still there and there is a possibility to having more dreams.

You see, the problem with dreaming is it’s a false sense of security and eventually when you awaken the problem will still be there. Personally, I think it’s better to work them out rather then dream pretending that the problem magically went away. Luckily there is no known god that can do something like that and it gives us another opprotunity to make our lives better. Everyday is a gift and should be enjoyed to it’s limits and not how much we can dream about it. Why would someone want to only dream and not make it into reallity is a puzzling question.

Just let them know of the danger that still awaits them. Get them to understand that there are no spoils back to where she was before.

Sometimes to keep the peace you have to say that you are wrong and tell the other person that they are right, even if that’s wrong if you are right and they are actually wrong. We have to do things that we don’t like to do to maintain order.

That’s good that you are in medical school but you may have to ask yourself if it’s really what you want.

[quote superman_newma]Fusion isn’t that the problem though. I asked her to come back and she chose to avoid marriage and her own kids. What can I fix when she isn’t here to fix it?[/quote]

Get her to sit down and realise that you two are a couple and if there is something going on then it has to be worked out. You don’t just want to sit around and let the problem build up do you, letting it get too out of hand really will lead down the road to divorce.

[quote Anonymous][quote Fusion ZX][quote sum][quote Fusion ZX]In a matter like this the help you need can’t be found here, what seems like the right awnser is rehab or go to a medical center.[/quote]

ive never heard of someone going to rehab for smoking weed, its a non addictive drug, well at least non physically addictive, psychologicly maybe yes[/quote]

Well they do, it’s called “DRUG REHAB” and smoking weed is as bad as drugs, it dosen’t alter your mind but it does alter your body, long time use will have serious problems in the future.[/quote]

Where do you get your facts? “Long time use will have serious problems in the future”. I have been smoking weed everyday for 14 years and I am still a high functioning human being. Just because Rachel Leigh Cook told you “this is your brain on drugs” when you were twelve doesn’t make it so. Stop buying into this propaganda and get your facts straight.[/quote]

Your the one who needs to get your facts strait. I don’t care about how much you say it’s not a drug since it is rehabs the way to go. You know, I can already tell you are in for a rough ride in the future with your smoking so good luck with that.

On to something worth talking about, poster you really should seek proffesional help and the sooner you do the more likely you will have to avoid going down the wrong path later in life.

The key to having anything good is to take care of it. The bond between you two should be constantly worked on and you two should strive to keep it as good as possible. When she comes back talk out your problems and put aside anything small that gets in the way. Life’s too short to be upset at something little while there are larger things of more importance to be thinking of.

[quote sum][quote Fusion ZX]In a matter like this the help you need can’t be found here, what seems like the right awnser is rehab or go to a medical center.[/quote]

ive never heard of someone going to rehab for smoking weed, its a non addictive drug, well at least non physically addictive, psychologicly maybe yes[/quote]

Well they do, it’s called “DRUG REHAB” and smoking weed is as bad as drugs, it dosen’t alter your mind but it does alter your body, long time use will have serious problems in the future.

This is a messed up situation. For one don’t be sleeping with someone elses boyfriend especially if you two have said that you broke up. If you two are still seeing each other then it dosen’t really seemed like you broke up now does it. Just move on, it’s not right to be with someone just because they are good in bed and yet you want to know if you should tell his new girl friend? There is no right awnser to this.

If someone is bothering you then tell your supervisor.

In a matter like this the help you need can’t be found here, what seems like the right awnser is rehab or go to a medical center.

Understand that he just wants you to do good in school.

You move on, but remember that there is always someone out there better.

Just remember the experiences that you have recieved to help you have a better relationship.