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• I am QUITTING… posted (7 months, 3 weeks) ago
  smoking,lol Anyone have any advice? I can’t go cold turkey, tried it. It causes to much st…

• This was written for me and my husband after our motorcycle accident and was published in a couple for biker magazines. posted (8 months, 2 weeks) ago
  I always post this and send it out in emails every spring. Please, when you are on the road, watch…

• Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others, including Love. posted (8 months, 3 weeks) ago
  One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink, so all constructed boats and le…

• Is there someplace I can put a pretty long story and give the link here for others to read instead of making 4 or 5 posts to get it all in? posted (9 months) ago
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• VALENTINE WISHES ARE MEANT TO BE SHARED FAR AND WIDE posted (9 months, 1 week) ago
  Dear Abby: DEAR ABBY: I clearly remember my first Valentine’s Day. I was in firs…

• Let’s help some more people. posted (9 months, 1 week) ago
  Leslie gave me an idea. From what I have been reading the last few days, tomorrow and Saturday ar…

• I need some help understanding something… posted (9 months, 2 weeks) ago
  Why do people cut? I don’t usually reply to a thread about cutting because I don’t und…

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Jules22871's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (2 votes) “You had our chance but you blew it.”
  

  You need to leave the guy alone. Going by what you wrote you really crossed the line on this one. There was nothing wrong with him asking you to leave because he had a function to attend. There was nothing wrong with him wanting to sleep either. If you had done that to me I would have turned my phone off and not answered it either. And to top it all off you broke up with him over something that you did. Not a good move on your part. If you want even the slightest chance of fixing this then leave him alone for a few days. Don’t call, don’t text. After about a week send a nice text telling him that you are sorry for the way you acted and you would like a chance to see him and explain why you behaved like you did.
  
  - written 9 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by armorforsleep, Mr. P

• (1 vote) Why can’t we ban all GUNS in the USA ?
  

  Why should we ban anything? Just because it’s banned only means the honest people won’t have it. Someone that wants something that has been banned will do whatever it takes to get it. If you ban guns then only the criminals will have them.
  
  - written 6 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by beatricegalant

• (1 vote) Failure?
  

  Don’t let one failure tear you down. Just look at Babe Ruth. Had the home run ( i think it was the home run) record but he had struck out 10,000 times getting there. You cannot be perfect all the time. Just scratch this performance off the list and practice a little harder for the next one.
  
  - written 7 months ago – voted for by Aries

• (1 vote) How do you cook this type of roast?
  

  I have bought them like that and done the crock pot thing and they come out really good. Also, try looking on the label or on the underside of it, there might be cooking instructions on there.
  
  - written 7 months ago – voted for by pleasurehusk

• (1 vote) i am deeply tramatized by some horrible events and i am starting to have violent fantasies concerning the person who caused them.
  

  I have this really, and I mean REALLY, vivid dream that concerns my Harley and the guy that ran over me. I actually start smiling when I think of it, hehehe There is nothing wrong with a good fantasy now and then. But, if it is starting to become an obsession and getting in the way of your real life then you might want to seek a little help. If it’s not, then just sit back and enjoy running him over with your motorcycle…or whatever is going thru your head!
  
  Just re-read your post, if you dont have the money for therapy, just come on here and start helping other people. It really goes a long ways towards making yourself feel better!
  
  - written 7 months ago – voted for by betoboticario

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• I am looking for the name of a cop show with Denis Leary it was on Sky 1 early 1994 anyone got any ideas?
  

  http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0001459/
  - written 5 months ago

• Hello,my name is Petras I’m from Lithuania.I
  

  Get an ecig. Google it. I went from more than 2 packs a day to not smoking at all and I’m in the process of decreasing the nicotine dosage right now. It really works.
  - written 5 months ago

• A prayer for Lily!
  

  Running late on this one but she has my prayers too. I know exactly what she’s going thru having gone thru a pelvic reconstruction twice and several leg surgeries. She has a hard way to go and she is going to need her friends. Be there for her all you can.
  - written 5 months ago

• one of my best friends is mad at me for hanging out with someone else
  

  Sounds like your other friend needs a reality check. There is no law that says you can have only one friend. Glad you are standing up to her. Just keep doing it and she will stop taking your friendship for granted.
  - written 5 months, 3 weeks ago

• Thinking if maybe i should kill myself, again, i dont know why im so disliked no matter what.
  

  [quote Xeno Dragon]Opinions are like a**holes; everybody has one. They don’t mean sh*t, either.
  
  Look, I know you feel bad, like I said, I’ve been there. But look at this. I’m a stranger, I don’t even know you, and I care enough to want you to live. I know that in thirty years, you’ll be glad you’re still alive. Yes, some of the people in your life may be complete di*ks to you, but why give them the satisfaction of knowing they were able to kill you and get away with it? Why let them know they got to you at all? If opinions matter so much to you, them show them you’re stronger than they are by not giving into their sh*t.[/quote]
  
  Very well put!
  - written 5 months, 3 weeks ago

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