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• Question for our hair experts…This includes you Mitzy! posted (1 year, 11 months) ago
  Alright, all you hair experts, I need some advice on hair. I have long hair. It’s down t…

• Quit smoking the easy way and save money posted (2 years, 10 months) ago
  I am not affiliated with what I am about to post in any way. I don’t make any money off this…

• I am QUITTING… posted (4 years, 1 month) ago
  smoking,lol Anyone have any advice? I can’t go cold turkey, tried it. It causes to much st…

• This was written for me and my husband after our motorcycle accident and was published in a couple for biker magazines. posted (4 years, 2 months) ago
  I always post this and send it out in emails every spring. Please, when you are on the road, watch…

• Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others, including Love. posted (4 years, 2 months) ago
  One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink, so all constructed boats and le…

• Is there someplace I can put a pretty long story and give the link here for others to read instead of making 4 or 5 posts to get it all in? posted (4 years, 2 months) ago
  …

• VALENTINE WISHES ARE MEANT TO BE SHARED FAR AND WIDE posted (4 years, 3 months) ago
  Dear Abby: DEAR ABBY: I clearly remember my first Valentine’s Day. I was in firs…

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Jules22871's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (2 votes) “You had our chance but you blew it.”
  

  You need to leave the guy alone. Going by what you wrote you really crossed the line on this one. There was nothing wrong with him asking you to leave because he had a function to attend. There was nothing wrong with him wanting to sleep either. If you had done that to me I would have turned my phone off and not answered it either. And to top it all off you broke up with him over something that you did. Not a good move on your part. If you want even the slightest chance of fixing this then leave him alone for a few days. Don’t call, don’t text. After about a week send a nice text telling him that you are sorry for the way you acted and you would like a chance to see him and explain why you behaved like you did.
  
  - written 4 years, 3 months ago – voted for by armorforsleep, Mr. P

• (1 vote) Anyone interesting in here?
  

  You don’t need meds just because you are wondering what your boyfriend is doing. The world has been going for thousands of years without everyone getting a pill for every little thing that is wrong. Butt hurt? You’re depressed, take this medicine.
  
  You are just 17 years old and are going through what every 17 year old goes through, dating doubts. Truth be told, we all had them. I am 45 and when I was growing up you didn’t go get put on meds because your fella didn’t call you the minute he said he would. You are the one that is making yourself a nervous wreck, not him. Chill out, get some Ben & Jerry’s and watch a movie. We’ve all been there and most of us did it without pills.
  
  - written 2 years, 5 months ago – voted for by FadingQuickly

• (1 vote) How do you outsmart mean people?
  

  [quote aeolian mode]Let’s say Richie is the mean kid and he loves to belittle Jeff in front of his classmates. It’s a regular occurrence,and Jeff is expecting it. As Richie makes his approach, Jeff announces, “Hey everyone, pay close attention to Richie, because he doesn’t get enough attention at home. Okay, we’re ready. Go ahead and make fun of me now.”
  
  Suddenly Richie doesn’t feel so good. Instead of getting upset, his intended victim isn’t bothered at all. And the group dynamics have shifted, too- instead of being amused by his antics, they’re looking down on him. His game has been reversed, and his ego has been deflated. This technique isn’t just for kids - it can work for anyone, regardless of age or situation[/quote]
  
  All I can say is awesome answer!
  
  - written 2 years, 5 months ago – voted for by A.O.E.N

• (1 vote) Attention users of this website: I have a task for you.
  

  I am just starting to get help for my mental issues. It is maddening to have to wait. I sat there and talked and cried for over an hour and then he says they will see me in 2 weeks for my psych evaluation. What was that I just went through? While I have reasons to be depressed, a lot of them, I hate the stigma of being labeled a mental patient like you do. But like someone else said, unless you tell them how are they to know. Life is never going to be easy. You are going to feel bad and not know why sometimes. Sounds like this is one of those times. Hang in there and give your doctor a chance. Right now that is my plan. Life can be good and wonderful and I want to get back to that point. You deserve to get there too.
  
  - written 2 years, 5 months ago – voted for by Fifi 11c

• (1 vote) Help me get to sleep
  

  There are many types of insomnia. As a rule I don’t usually send anyone to Wikipedia since info on there is written and changed by other people but in this case it is a good starting point
  
  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Insomnia
  
  If you have decent insurance it is smart move to have a sleep study done to find out exactly which type of insomnia you have. I have what is called sleep phase disorder. Left alone, I can fall asleep around 4-5am and sleep 8 hours easy. But if I have to go to sleep at a normal time I just can’t do it. I’ve been like this for years.
  
  Read the article and then talk to your doctor. S/he will be able to point you in the right direction.
  
  - written 2 years, 10 months ago – voted for by yorkshirejon

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• Question for our hair experts…This includes you Mitzy!
  

  [quote Zirbel]Look at her:
   
  [youtube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Thw7hxD1hTQ]
   
   
  —> And maybe a “Tangle Teezer” is your solution — other ladies with very long hear recommend it deeply:
  http://tangleteezer.com/[/quote]
  
  I would strangle myself in my sleep if I had that much hair,lol
  - written 1 year, 11 months ago

• Whos going to win the super bowl?
  

  The team with the highest score.
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago

• .
  

  If I was a mod, I would have to take a look at the posts and judge them each for their value. You can’t delete a post just because you don’t agree with it (not that that is what is happening here, just have seen it happen elsewhere) No matter how much you like a certain member, if they are wrong, they are wrong and have to be treated/sanctioned as such.
  
  I have been a mod/admin on a few forums over the years and it takes a strong personality with ethics to make the balancing act work.
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago

• Happy birthday to me.
  

  If you don’t want to go backwards then have anniversaries. I told the kids last year that I was celebrating the 16th anniv of my 29th bday! See, old age problem solved!
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago

• Happy birthday to me.
  

  [quote Mï†z¥-superMODel]Thanks everyone :)
  (I’m totally diggin the backward age thing, I’ve decided to be 29 now instead of 31)
  :D
  
  Love ya Aunt Jules! Tell Jesse that Josh may need some computer help please, if he has time to deal with it lol.[/quote]
  
  Love ya too! I’ll let him know but he usually doesn’t do anything but sleep, eat and work during the week. text me what’s wrong and I’ll tell him.
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago

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