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Get an ecig. Google it. I went from more than 2 packs a day to not smoking at all and I’m in the process of decreasing the nicotine dosage right now. It really works.

Running late on this one but she has my prayers too. I know exactly what she’s going thru having gone thru a pelvic reconstruction twice and several leg surgeries. She has a hard way to go and she is going to need her friends. Be there for her all you can.

Sounds like your other friend needs a reality check. There is no law that says you can have only one friend. Glad you are standing up to her. Just keep doing it and she will stop taking your friendship for granted.

[quote Xeno Dragon]Opinions are like a**holes; everybody has one. They don’t mean sh*t, either.

Look, I know you feel bad, like I said, I’ve been there. But look at this. I’m a stranger, I don’t even know you, and I care enough to want you to live. I know that in thirty years, you’ll be glad you’re still alive. Yes, some of the people in your life may be complete di*ks to you, but why give them the satisfaction of knowing they were able to kill you and get away with it? Why let them know they got to you at all? If opinions matter so much to you, them show them you’re stronger than they are by not giving into their sh*t.[/quote]

Very well put!

You can always find a reason to live. Sometimes it is really hidden and you have to look really hard. I’m not going to lie to you, I’ve thought about it and been **** close to doing it myself. Being on your way to Florida for vacation and then wake up not being able to walk again will do that to you. Been thru 13 surgeries to just try and keep my leg attatched to my body and still not be sure it’s going to stay there will drive you insane. I went from being an active newly married woman to a disabled lard butt in the blink of an eye. I am pretty much a recluse. I only go out when I just absolutely have to. I was going down fast. I found Help.com and just being on here and trying to help people has been better than other medicine they have given me. Maybe I was meant to be here to do just this, I don’t know. But there is a reason you are here. Now you just have to figure out what that reason is and make the most of it.

You are afraid to meet this person but yet you are willing to take money from him? Sorry but that just sounds like you’re going to take advantage of a kind soul. If the thought of seeing him bothers you then you need to say no to the loan and find another way to make some money.

[quote sum][quote Jules22871]You really have to learn to like yourself before you can expect others to like you. Find something that you can do and study up on it and practice it. It will do your self esteem a lot to be able to do something you enjoy.

People on the internet often really dont care about other people. They want it to be all about them and it sounds like she is one of them. You have to be careful with any online relationship, no matter what kind of relationship it is.[/quote]
Thats just selfish dont you think? liking someone just because they dont need it and not likeing them when they do need to be loved?

it was coming from someone who was engaged to someone over the internet though!… but that didnt work out for her. It wasnt a relationship…. but i do have another thing going on that is kind of like taht but not really, just strange =/[/quote]

Yeah, it is very selfish. But sadly it happens that way all the time.

I am going to use your own words against you for a few lines here

“HOW TO END YOUR LIFE

Die of old age. It never fails to work. Its so awesome, all you have to do is sit back and relax and have fun in the meantime. Amazing isnt it? Good luck and choose no other option of death than this, all others fail and leave you misserable.”

Those are some pretty good words you came up with. Now you just need to see the meaning in them and find a way to apply them to yourself.

You really have to learn to like yourself before you can expect others to like you. Find something that you can do and study up on it and practice it. It will do your self esteem a lot to be able to do something you enjoy.

People on the internet often really dont care about other people. They want it to be all about them and it sounds like she is one of them. You have to be careful with any online relationship, no matter what kind of relationship it is.

and you know this is real how? There is no way I would send money to anyone on the internet that I didn’t personally know.

Just because you don’t think the same way as other people is no reason to give up on life and love. Seriously though, it sounds like you really need to find different people to hang with because that one is really not the friend type.

You will have people all through out life that won’t like you. To me it’s not a big deal. I like myself and that’s enough for me. Quit worrying so much over what other people think and you will feel much better before you know it.

If you were to treat an overweight person they way they treat smokers the court system would be so busy it would shut down. Smokers really are discriminated against. But, just recently the ones using the ecig won a small victory against the FDA. They are not allowed to ban the Ecig, as of yet. As it is people are still stocking up on supplies and I’m one of them,lol

Mike Ferrel was in Mash. Not sure if there is a relation or not.

Sorry but you sound just as whiney as your sister.

Make a list of the pros and cons. As to have a nice calm sit down talk with her. Read from your list so you won’t forget or lose track. Be sure to NOT put things like, evil mother and whiney brat on there as a pro or a con. That would be a bad thing. Do not lose your temper. Do not cry, scream, raise your voice, pout or whine. Act like someone who can be counted on being responsible enough to live in a dorm type setting. Good luck!

Here’s what I did and still do

Wash face with ****. Ives Apricot scrub.
Use witch hazel on a cotton ball to make the pores smaller
Use Oil of Olay before you put your makeup on. I have used it since I was 16. I am now 43 and people think my son and I are brother and sister all the time.

It takes a couple of weeks for everything to clear up but you should be well pleased with the results if you keep with it.