do you have a spouse or sibling or someone who can take care of the kids if something happens? back up plans are good to have. - written 10 months, 3 weeks ago
just be there for him. you wont ever be like the other parent to the kids, maybe close, but thats something you should let the mother have. and to him, you have him now right? so that should be enough. don’t worry about being selfish either! =) - written 10 months, 3 weeks ago