a while ago i put a post on here. posted (7 months) ago
i came on to say that i was writing a book and so on so fourth …..anyway i created a website t…
any scenarios? posted (9 months) ago
hey um i trying to write out a story and im completely stuck i need some scenario ideas.
im writing…
how do u get guys to talk to u? posted (10 months) ago
my problem is i want to be more noticed and stuff by guys but i dont know how to do it.i’m r…
soooooooooo…? posted (10 months) ago
wats up u guys right now im continuing to write something of mine and if u want to read it so far …
so your in school, right?
do you have any dances comming up at your school?
because if you do than you can casually ask-not intensenvly ask-:
“so who you planning on taking to the dance?” -or sonthing like that.OR
you could casually ask: “so who you got your eyes set on?”-somthing like that
sorry that im of little help, im no good at relashionhips, i havent really had one yet,im in school too, i just want my first relashionship to be special if thats possible, you know?
well it seems like he really see’s you, and notices you, exspecially if he told you you have a great smile. i think that he likes you, and he’s afraid of exactly what he’s afraid of. and maybe he’s being settle about it because-like you said-his dad’s a pasture. maybe he’s affraid of parental acceptance.i think he’s there with you pal.
and knowing you both might feel the same way might help you bew more open with him and understanding of eachother while keeping it on the down low.
relashionships take time.
hopfully i have somewhat helped you, maybe, possibly?
~hannah
- written 6 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by josephmclove
Maybe its just that you need to get out more like they said^^^^^^^^^^^^
And maybe, I could be wrong, your not happy with your life because your not happy with your marriage.
I mean I’m not saying I think you hate him but it seems you guys dont do anything togther really anymore that made you guys so interested in each other or happy together in the first place. Maybe your husband is not the same person he used to be and maybe the way you love him could be more of a “family love” than a “relshionship love”. When work is almost over, do you feel happy and excited to go home to your husband who you know loves you and you love him too, and you think you’ll feel better once you see him when you walk in the door? OR when work is almost over do you feel maybe a hint excited because you hate your job and are just ready to leave, but when your on your way home you know theres not much to look forward too?
And about the other friend, what do you mean by nasty? Did he try do something or did he just not like who you married?
Was it worth it to give up your friendship (sounds like it was a good one) because maybe he said things he shouldn’t have?
Because what I’m taking from your friend being “nasty” is that he has feelings for you in a “love love” way not a “friend love” way and I think he still does. He’s just not happy that you decided to marry the man you married.
As far as the getting a new job part goes, keep searching theres something out there for you, never give up, your not doomed to bordom your just not doing the right things to make you happy. find out what makes you happy and pursue it.
hope i’ve helped. =) - written 1 month ago
i wouldn’t get back with him>>>>> a lot of love/hate relationships usually stay the same way
of and then on again, off then on again, off then on AGAIN….(you get the picture)
you could save yourself a whole lot of drama if you try finding someone else…you cant be in a relashionship with someone you dont trust. well you could if you wanted to but its not something your going to want to stay in.
[*hince the frase love/hate relationship] - written 2 months, 1 week ago
1)”The question is - should I let my boyfriend take me away from my parents and leave everything behind here, and start anew with my boyfriend who’s already going to have for me a place to stay, money to live, money to have tietary studies, and time for my boyfriend and I to be together?
or
2)Should I stay and remain at this home where I am still being verbally and internally abused and sad most days, and without being able to be in my boyfriends arms until at least after 4 years?”
definately the first option. you’ve worked hard and deserve to be happy.
yes your parents gave you life and education, but showed you no love,or how to love.but one thing they seemed to have tuaght you is to stand on your own two feet. its time for you to yake a stand. your eighteen get the heck out of there.
and dont feel guilty for leaving your parents, because technically they left you a long time ago. you can do better and its time for you to make a career and succeed at it.
just know that sometimes we as people have to make sacrifices and risks, and learn the beauty of ‘moving on’.
whats its worth?
1)being happy with someone you love and who loves you back, and be able to be in the arms of whom you love.Everything being calm, relaxing, easy.To be excited to look forward not just the future but just the time being.
or
2)being pushed around and scared. the confidence you have in your self limited. no love lives or exsists, your just ulimatley lost. lost and alone in a big lonely world, with no hope and no faith.
-hannah - written 2 months, 2 weeks ago
[quote Anonymous]It is pretty nuts isn’t it? One moment we are all doing pretty ok then things go downhill in relationships and BOOM! ..we’ve been hit with a combo-stupidity-blindness-denail stick![/quote]
Everyone wants to know that same answer…..
perhaps its because we forget to use our brains and rely on emotion and hormones and were ‘blinded’ and have an alternate way of sensing reality. - written 2 months, 2 weeks ago