mathfreak's shoutbox - Help.com

I’m glad ur not leaving!!! Are you ok tho?

Oh no!!!! That makes me sad! I’m sorry they hurt you hun!!! If you want to talk still my email is slantforward at yahoo.com ok!

I’m doing ok today:) How are you hun?

Hey whats up?

OH jeeze!! LOL what did u do?!

in school suspention sorry cant spelllol

What is Iss?

Hey! How you doing?

Thats awesome hun!! Good for you:D

Thanks hun but it’s not ur fault just i guess some things I need to deal with ya know? Not sure which way to go just yet but w.e!

So what did you do on ur GREAT day?

awww well thats no good! Are you ok? I’m glad ur day was so good tho!:) What did you do??!?

I’m doin okish. Just REALLY out of it and like depressed. Went out with a friend today tho and had a good time soo that helped some:)

Talk to you soon huN!!!

Hey hun how you feeling today?

I do care! Hun please take care of yourself! If you want to cut come back online and talk ok! Or do anything but that..like take a nap or read a book, walk ur dog anything but hurt yourself! I’ll talk to you soon! Just shout me if you need anything and my email is slantforward at yahoo if you ever need to talk! Bye hun!

Thats what it does hun makes you want more. And your right it does feel good but it’s only short lived ya know? I wish I had like magic glitter or something to make things ok for you or at least how to stop hurting yourslef but haven’t quite figured that out myself. It really is something you can get addicted to but the scars last forever hun. Does anyone else know about this? Like friends/family who ever?

But you can talk to me! To get your mind kinda distracted for awhile instead of thinking about cutting if you want to!

Just promise me that you’ll be careful hun cause when you feel so low sometimes thats when it gets to be the worst ya know? That scares me.

Are you ok now!!? Like where and how deep was it?

Sometimes we slip up and do it but hun please don’t go back to doing that again. It’s really difficult to stop once you start. You have done so well a year is something to be proud of!

No hun I want to help!! Don’t be sorry!

I’m sorry your friend did that and I can’t imagin what you must be going through. I would feel betrayed by someome so close to me doing that. Leaving the way he did. Imagine what the peopel closet to you would feel like if you did the same thing! You are a strong person dear! Remember that you are still here to live. Live the life your friend would be proud of! It might take some time to get things straight but with time (i know time sucks arse!) things will start to chancge!

what i’m concered about tho is that you said you want to cut. How long have you been doing that and have you done it all ready?

I’m sorry hun that is really rough! It can be hard when the person that we love is taken away from us especially under those circumstances. You feeling so lousy hun isn’t what your friend wanted tho sweet heart. I mean you said he was like your brother. Family wants the best for one another ya know? You are not alone tho hun many people out there feel the way you do. I am one of them! It’s hard to lose soemone but its even harder when you resort to harming yourself.

No Idm at all! I mean I have been cutting for a long time now and its hard to stop! Maybe I can help or at least try! I have all day:)

i just turned 21

I’m not sure how you feel about prayer but have you try that? Then watch this short video it will helpl alot.
http://www.lesbrown.com/million_dolla…

yeah it was ok thanks; a few dramas unfolded but that usually happens when I am around family lol

Oohh so how old will you be?

Ahh Thnak you :)
That was nice :P

And I am here to help; tell me anything anytime and I will always get back to you.

Thank you :)

Yes it is :D
27 today; I don’t think I should be shouting that about lol

Well I am glad it worked out :)
I bet that feels better doesn’t it!

ok;
If you have to live there then sometimes it is best to compramise.
Go and tell him that you are willing to listen to his side of things.
Ask him what happened in that situation where he made your friend cry.
I know it is not nice that someone made him cry and you want to look out for him but sometimes the other side gives you the bigger picture.
Maybe it was an accident or maybe he was upset and was just lashing out at anyone and your friend just happened to be there.

If you fight then you are not listening and when you don’t listen that’s when you can miss out on the big things in life.

If he just wanted to do that to be a jerk then I think you are best to avoid him as much as possible until your temper has calmed down enough to see that some things are not as bad as they feel at the time.

Ok; calm down a little and then we will see if we can come up with something.

Questions~
1– What was the fight about?
2– Do you know that person well or not?
3– If you did move how much happier would that make you?

Yeah go ahead :)

Me tooooo…well its been really nice…hope to catch ya later…
Take care…edie

ohhhh…sorry…but once you get out into the world, there are plenty of places to get those subjects…and alot of them are free…just have to find ‘em is all…

It truly was great. Most of my friends in school came from that class…just great people…does your school offer anything like that?

Ohhh I learned to cook and clean and take care of a child…oh that was a blast too…we were given little robotic children to care for…they cried all the time…But I actually aced that class…It was alot of crazy fun…
And learned to sew…well, hehe, sort of…and how to keep budgets and the household running like a top…*cringes* we shall seeee!!

oh…sheesh…I don’t know anything about SC…but I’m sure that google could help with free cooking classes there…I’m sure you’d love it…Have you ever taken like Home management in school…I loved that stuff…

I’m in S.C

Yeah it was free…where are you, well you know just the state…

I took it at the local community college during the summer…just for the fun of it…had a ball…And now that I am heading out to a life of my own, I’m going to be able to use all of that learning…can’t wait…

sure is where did you take the class

Oh I don’t think that its weird for a guy to like to cook. I think that its really cool…especially when I get to try one of his creations…and we can enjoy it together…:o)
I took a cooking class last summer and now the burners on my stove are just about never cool! LOL!
Cooking is great no matter who is doing it…fun too…

LOL, that is cool…I enjoy some of the math stuff, but mostly I self taught myself. I just couldn’t get it in school…now I do fine…What else are you into?Vid games or anything?

Actually, I sit here and go through all the posts and try to help whereever I can…It passes the time, you know?
Where did you get the name mathfreak?? Just wonderin’….

Hey mathfreak…just kinda hanging around home till I get to go out in a little while…how’s about you? Whats going on for you? Edie

nothing really, getting ready to go on a walk with my friend to the river

Hi …
Nothing much, you?

Ok; I hope it goes well for you.
Just remember that real friends don’t make you feel bad for not doing what they want and they do not pressure you into doing something you don’t want to do.

thank you for your help. i will keep in touch and tell you how it went.

If they were friends then you would not be scared to go against what they say.
In that respect I would say that the only reason they want you there too is because if you are there you can’t tell as you would get into trouble also.

Just tell them no; say they can do what they want but your not getting involved; say you have no intention of telling on them and in future not to get you this involved again.

Hmm tricky one.

The right thing to do would be to tell someone; many reason why.
One being that if they got into trouble and had an accident or if the school has a fire and no one knew they were not in etc

But then you have the issue of telling you may lose your friends and /or may get bullied about it.

If I was in your exact same situation I think I would tell them Im not doing it but I wouldn’t tell anyone.
But I would let them know that I would not lie for them; if someone asked me where they were then I would say and also if something happened I would say.

If you tell them before hand that you will tell if you have to then you have given them a warning and they know that you didn’t do it to get them in trouble.

Your not bothering me.
Ask and if I know anything I will say.

oh ok :)

well you can talk to me about anything anytime.

Did you want to talk about anything specific or just popping in to say hi?