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• My freind thinks she may be pregnant. posted (3 weeks, 1 day) ago
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  Given the potential, in Cartesian coordinates U(x,y,z) = ln(x^2 + y^2 +z^2) Consider the vector …

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fractal.scatter's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (3 votes) I seriously hate being a girl
  

  Nah, girl’s are much cooler. They smell nice and look pretty. They’re smart and funny and interesting. If we gloss over the fact they talk too much sometimes and whinge and whine when they don’t get what they want; or that some girls don’t have the decency to do all the housework and cooking, then they’re okay :P
  
  - written 5 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by Sir Tannen, Mr. P, alex

• (3 votes) My name is Sarah, I’m 14 and I want to commit suicide right now.
  

  I hope that you trust me when I say that your family love you more than anything on this Earth. But families are not perfect. They hurt and bully and upset the people they love the most. Sometimes they don’t even know why they are doing it.
  
  Sometimes they get mad at themselves or the things that they do and because you are closest to them its you they gets the blame fot a lot of things. It’s you that feels they are not loved. I know its hard and not fair but it’s just the way a lot of families are.
  
  Mine was like that sometimes too. I felt like my mom and my sister didn’t want me around. When I was 15 something horrible happened and I didn’t see my mom again for another three years and my sister for another two years after that.
  
  I missed them terribly for that time and would have done anything to see them again even though it was a result of something that my mom and sister had done to me.
  
  I’ve tried to commit suicide before. Actually twice before. Most people who want to commit suicide do it because they can’t see a way out of their terrible situation. They can’t live their life the way they have been doing, or can see how they could ever possibly be happy. Most of them don’t want die but they just are not happy living.
  
  Dying is not a solution to being unhappy living. Regret if doing something isn’t nice but at least you have opportunities to sort these things out. If you die you cannot ever regret it. Your family are left to regret it instead but they can never put it right. They live with all of your hurt and pain as well as their own. And as much as you *think* they hate you that’s a wicked thing to do to them.
  
  I understand how you’re feeling. I also understand how your Mom’s feeling having to look after her children whilst your Dad drinks to numb his own pains. She does wish for your life to be happier and in saying what she said I think that’s what she really meant deep down. That she wishes she had never bought you into this situation where you would be so unhappy.
  
  I think this shows she’s aware on some level (in her heart) that you can’t be happy in the situation your family os in at the moment. And she doesn’t know how to change this. Doesn’t know what to do to make it better. And she takes out her frustrations on you. It’s not fair but it’s what happens soemtimes.
  
  It’s good that you have friends. I hope that being with them brings some happiness to you. It’s difficult for you to trust them though and I understand why, but maybe you should give them the benefit of the doubt for the time being. Hang around with them maybe a little more if you can. If they genuinely like you being around (and I’m sure they do), then they would love for you to spend more time hanging out with them. You may even be able to start talking to them about your home life although I doubt you will until you’re able to trust them more. I think you’ll find out that many young guys and gals feel like you do. Hurt like you are hurting now.
  
  I want you to know that I at least want you to be happy. And even though you’ve never met me and I don’t even know who you are; you know for sure that someone out there in the big world cares about you.
  
  I know you’re hurting and feel lost, and it could last a while yet I’m afraid, but I know that you’ll feel better some day. And that on that day you’ll understand what’s happened for the last few years on your life and know that you wont let that happen. That you will enjoy your life and live it just how you want to and that you’ll be so happy. Cause I know you will.
  
  I don’t know whether any of this will change your mind. If you really beleive what I’m saying then I hop it might, but I understand it’s hard for you to trust anyone at the moment.
  
  I want you to be happy. And you will soon. Give your family and especially yourself a chance to prove it.
  
  Take care Sarah. Come talk to us anytime.
  
  - written 9 months ago – voted for by ...................., fireangel8249, MarinMina716

• (2 votes) Flirtatious.
  

  How you doin… ?
  *Joey American accent*
  
  - written 8 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by Mr. P, Tal.*

• (1 vote) My parents don’t trust me.
  

  So when you say ‘freind’ you actually mean ‘boyfreind’?
  
  And technically speaking, although you may feel old enough to date at 17, you have no right to should your parents choose otherwise.
  
  - written 1 week, 2 days ago – voted for by Fuzzy Pepper

• (1 vote) Whos Bored?
  

  [quote jetmoo]how do you put videos up like that? do you use the embedded code or url?[/quote]
  
  You type
  [youtube:YOUTUBEURL]
  
  - written 1 week, 3 days ago – voted for by Shadowplay

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• ok so i met this guy on a chat site.
  

  [quote littlenick]She probably told him that she’s 25 and that she has a lot of experience in love.
  
  When in reality she’s only 13 and never been kissed![/quote]
  
  Hmmm… she’s gonna have a bit of a problem covering that up.
  - written 5 hours, 6 minutes ago

• ok so i met this guy on a chat site.
  

  What exactly is the little lie?
  - written 5 hours, 11 minutes ago

• I do not want to miss school tomorrow.
  

  Well food-poisoning definately makes you feel unwell and hurts; so you can’t really work well feeling like that. And as well as that, you’ll probably gonna need easy access to all the comforts you have at home.
  
  Hope you get better soon :)
  (and you can always read a book or something in bed if you feel like you should be doing something)
  - written 5 hours, 17 minutes ago

• I want a hug.
  

  *hugs*
  I’m sorry to hear that Soph. Love from me to you and your family :)
  - written 5 hours, 20 minutes ago

• Sick to death of bbc tv licence nearly 150 pounds
  

  According to the poster, nearly 1 million families a year are convicted. Now I know people are convicted; but that’s people not families. You cannot convict a family. And this makes me dubious about the 1 millions figure. But people do get convicted for not having one and that’s the way it should stay.
  - written 16 hours, 54 minutes ago

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