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  well, that is the cutest request ever, thanks for making me laugh
  - written 9 months, 4 weeks ago

• hi
  

  It sounds like you are shy, so guys who were shy, when they wanted to get to know me would sort of appear out of no where and be in my face, after a while you sort of give them a chance, (unless you really don’t like him).
  
  But I will say this, you really need to start working on your shyness. It will benefit you in the end. Most girls/women like men who are more on the aggressive side, not agressive but more comfortable with themselves.
  
  Perhaps you should use this as an opportunity to practice, because I assure you that this issue will keep coming up throughout your life, you might as well nip it in the bud now. Really, the most charming guys are charming because they practiced their way into it (and ultimately realized that it really isn’t that hard).
  
  Practice makes perfect. Why not start now!
  - written 10 months ago

• If you had 3 wishes, but they had to be within whats
  

  to find a job, to help my dog, to remain employed or with an income for the remainder of my life.
  - written 10 months ago

• i don’t know if it’s worth it to walk away.
  

  I think that you are getting great advice here. You have invested w-a-y too much of your time waiting on this guy. If something was going to happen, it would have. You talk to him 45 minutes per day and still nothing is happening in this relationship?
  
  I think you are being used. Wait for him if you will, but if I were you I would listen to each of the above and Brian is a guy and he is telling you the truth, men know exactly what they want and they go after it. If they are not going after you, then it is very likely because they going after the person that they want.
  
  This does not mean that you are beneath him, not at all. It’s just that some people are made for some people and others were just not. It is not about you as a person, you are wonderful, far more than he deserves and exactly what the right guy for you deserves. The right guy will come around. This I promise you!!!
  
  There are a couple of things that I know: the right guy will come eventually and you are going to wait for this guy a little bit longer. But what I hope is that while you are waiting, that you use the information given here and judge whether what we are saying is true, because you are receiving sage advice!
  - written 10 months ago

• so theres this girl
  

  I have followed behind khyron before and khyron is a font of good information, so I will simply add that when a person is in a difficult time in their life (and I know that from personal experience) the road is not smooth for them and thus it will not be smooth for you either. Be prepared for ups, downs, cracks and curves, even pain and rejection. If you prepare yourself for this, if your eyes are wide open and you decide, knowing all of this in advance, that you still want to/are able to deal with it, then proceed. But proceed, reminding yourself as you go that you are likely walking into a tempest and all storms are hard to predict.
  
  If at any point in the relationship you forget that you have walked into a storm and you allow yourself to become part of the storm, you will suffer a lot of pain and you won’t know why. Just remember that you will likely be walking into the storm, just don’t get swept up!
  
  This sounds like drama to me. I you are a drama lover, then why not!
  - written 10 months ago

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