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The first thing should always be a job CLAIR:)

The only thing lacking in you CLAIR is the fire in your belly. When you decide to look out for CLAIR, put CLAIR first and do what you have to do in order to take care of CLAIR, everything else will fall into place. Why is it your job to take care of everyone else’s emotional needs at the expense of your own emotional needs? Why is not important! Understanding is! Unless you start putting yourself first you are not going to be able to have a fulfilling life. If you do not look out for yourself no one else is going to, CLAIR. Your friend Soul:)

You’re welcome! And we’re always here (or at least, somebody is!!). Shout back at me anytime!

But sometimes, when you find out so many others agree with the course of action that will require courage, it can help you know you’re doing the right thing and overcome the mental obstacles that are keeping you from doing it. I hope we were able to help you with that a bit. . .

I was happy to talk to you. Hopefully, some of the things we had to say were helpful. Courage is always the hardest part though, isn’t it?

I replied to your post sweety:) I’ll pop in and out to keep an eye on you:) I hope you are have a nice rest:)

OK - like I said this is a great place. I think you definitely get some help if you do that!

This is not completely private clair. But i will talk to you?

I understand about the privacy thing - that’s why I suggested you might want to go ahead and post your issue anonymously. That way you can get lots of people’s opinions. And there really are a lot of wise people of all ages on here who can offer advice from all perspectives. So maybe wait a bit and then write out the story and post, clicking the anonymous button, and no one will tie it back to your username. But I’m happy to talk with you here if you’re OK with that.

Hi, there. Wanna talk?

Hi there you are:) Soulrises is better at girl stuff:) Would you like me to get her?

btw welcome to shouts…it’s not private, but away from the post or regular chat:)

Hi, there are some good members here for you:)