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I am feeling so strange. I can’t eat and I can’t sleep. It has been 24 hours since I have eaten. Food makes me feel so sick. What can I do to get over this? Whenever I sit down I can’t help thinking about it. I feel so used and betrayed. Help.

****. Too late.

I change it often. I am closing this post now. But thank you all for the help and the conversation. I really needed some people to talk to. Thanks.

Ok. Thanks for the advice.

I guess. I don’t even care. I just feel so terrible right now. He doesn’t know about Help

Not yet. He just moved in a few weeks ago.

Well, I think you know when something is up. I know him so well, that I could just feel that something was up. I knew he was doing **** behind my back, I guess I just didn’t want to admit it. I couldn’t ignore it when there is concrete proof in my face though. I am no one’s sucker. He tricked me once, but he wont ever again.

I will. I just want this whole thing to be over. I feel so betrayed. Six ******* years. The worst thing is that I knew something was up. I knew it. I asked him so many times if he is cheating and he looked me in the eye and said no. He goes to school in another city and he has not been coming home every night. He would tell me, “i am gonna go drinking with my friends and stay at my friend’s house”. and then when he came home he wouldn’t want to have sex. He didn’t even get me a birthday gift.

Ha ha. I could try that too!! Well, I just thought it would help my case. I did tell him he didn’t have to pay me back because we were together at that time. I thought the judge may ask me why i want it back now. i guess i just watch too much judge mathis!

I guess i am petty, but i want him to be embarrassed too. I also suspect he gave her the money or used it to take her somewhere.

Well, I gave him a cheque so I guess i can use that too. But he could always say it was a gift and if i don’t prove he was cheating they will think i am lying.

Nope. He has some of it, but he is gonna have to send someone to get it later. He has his wallet and some clothes. He can go stay with her for all i care.

I kicked him out. I don’t know where he is. Probably ******* his new GF.

I guess they don’t. He wasnted to come home and live a domestic life, and have fun on the side. He didn’t ever really love me. Sorry mas1s. Yours is worse. Men are such pieces of ****!

Anyway, those options don’t work. The secret question is his favorite teacher! I have no idea. I tried one option, but it was wrong. The recycle bin is empty. Anything else? Isn’t there a place on my computer that holds all passwords even if the person has signed out?

I will try that. He was pretty sneaky. Getting up early to chat with her on my computer!!! Can you believe that??? He may have deleted everything, but let me try those suggestions.