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do you think he’s worth the effort? i mean when you see him and you guys dont talk does it hurt you?

But i like her, haha. Even if we spend time together it’ll always be on my mind and its driving me crazy. I stay up at night just thinking about her. Sure hanging out is fun and we chill, but now that I like her I feel like I want something else to happen.

Not to sound like the bad guy, but you should date whoever you truly like. Your friend may like you but if you dont really want to go out with her your not being honest with her, or yourself. So tell her you just dont think you could put your whole being into this relationship and hope that nothing negative comes out of your explanation.

So what do we have to do during this “meditation?” I think it’d be awesome to be able to experience this feeling for more then a few seconds….

wait, after five years you still have the rashes, or you’ve been using the topiclear for five years and this only recently happened?

take the plunge luvr. You already feel this way about him and even if you try to have a normal conversation with him your lying to yourself and pushing your true feelings down. He might even take it the wrong way if you act differently around him without giving a good reason, and your relationship might go down a path you don’t want it to go. Just tell him, just say something like, “hey do you like me as more of a friend?” or something like that.

Oh and what signs are you getting from him that might tell you that he likes you as well?

like dont wanna mess up the friendship in case things dont work out?

your just thinking about what your saying to much probably. honestly just try and imagine that your still surrounded by his friends, no one likes awkward moments. :D
But you do want your feelings to be known, so just work up he courage and ask him, don’t beat yourself about what you could’ve said at the time, and of course don’t miss your chance.

Is he the only guy you get shy around?

How old are you?

im in kind of the same predicament. I really like my best friend and lately, because of these feelings, I’ve noticed that I just cant talk with her the same anymore. It’s killing me and I want to tell her, but am unsure of her feelings and I’m scared to death of the consequences.

All I know is though, is that if I don’t tell her soon our relationship is going to turn south just because of how I can’t talk with her as just a friend anymore.

I’m really sorry I couldn’t be of more help…

im the same way man, at times I’ll just lie awake at night and I feel like I’m the only one in the world left. I can look up at the ceiling for hours and still never reach sleep. Whenever this happens I start thinking a lot, mostly about my current problems in my life and this really get me down at times. If you need anyone to talk to dont be a stranger cause I feel like I’m going through the same **** as you. :)

well why is it that you think you feel empty? do you spend as much time as you want with your girlfriend? do you enjoy what studies your doing right now? Are you missin anything from back home maybe?

The dream does indeed sound like its directly relating to your life experiences, but of course dreams are still dreams :). I’m sorry to hear that your parents are getting divorced, I cant even imagine what you felt, or are feeling right now. But I do know how you feel in the whole girl situation, I’m a senior in high school and have been through the same girl situation many times before, but I just know that they were the wrong ones for me and have moved on.

The dream is obviously painful for you since it can dig up all the old feelings you had for these past events, but just remember that you can and will get through this.

Actually I’ve already done the whole leaving her alone/ignoring her thing. When I did it she would try and talk to me often, and when I didnt respond to her txts or something she would repeatedly ask me what was wrong and then eventually get a little ticked and ask me what my problem was haha. Man I’m a loser.. :|