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I would move on from her as what she did to you was harsh, you deserve better than that and you know what? with your qualities you will meet someone that loves you for you. I think she is putting on a front by being all happy, really she must be feeling guilty in what happened.
Plus if she does lose here virginity to the new guy and then (as its young love) when things don’t work out for them and they do break up then she will realise how good you were to her.
Plenty more fish in the sea my friend you deserve someone that will treat you much better.

give him another chance, he may have just had a hectic week and he seems to like you.

i suppose you may as well tell him how you are feeling, you don’t want to be thinking ‘what if’, just have a chat with him see how things go, you never know he may really like you and be shy on commenting on you page possibly, tell him how you feel, if things don’t work out though see if you can still stay friends.

Firstly to get yourself motivated try and do something you enjoy, maybe just get out the house or do something with a friend, a walk or job or some exercise is really good as it releases endomorphins and concentrates your mind.
As with your sexuality this may just be a phase, give it time and see, it doesn’t matter if you like girls or boys or girls and boys, this is your decision, try and be happy with yourself.

The past CAN be changed, your still with the guy you love which is great remember that and love him, live your life and be happy, i advise seeing a doctor about your eating disorder.

I myself am quite a shy guy, its simple really as every guy would really love the girl to ask him out. I would talk to him and see what kind of vibes you get, if it feels right just simply ask him out or ask him to go to the cinema and ask him out there or something.

Good luck

Make him feel good inside, drop some hints, touch his arm, look him in the eyes etc.

Best Friend yet Worst Enemy possibly?

there will always be frustrations and dissapointments in life, you need to fully accept that, remember the good times and live for the good times, you’re not alone i have felt the same way as you have.

give her some closure, tell her you are sorry, THAT is the real sign of a man.

Just accept that things will get you frustrated in life and obviously there will be downs and dissapointments, be positive remember the good things, take your mind off it maybe get out more or exercise, i think we’ve all been in this situation and felt this way before, just don’t act on it, maybe read about Obsessive Compulsive Disorder there are some tips on the internet that can help overcome this problem.

Best of luck.

Keep calm and collected, she is only trying to help, i think from time to time we all feel this way, its natural for the brain to test ourself, don’t worry about it or get anxious about it. My advice is don’t harm or hurt her, she only wants the best for you and she loves you, it’s true.

no you’re not, everyone is an amazing person, you were only expressing your feelings that is perfectly normal.

Everyone thinks when they go out with someone, ooohh i think this is the one and only, i’ve met many girls where i thought they were the ‘one’ turns out they wern’t, time moves on you meet new people, remember your last dates and crushes were you thought this is the one and then moved on.

try imagining your life say a good three years ago from now i bet things were different right? In time things will be different again and they will pick up e.g. just tomorrow you may wake up and think thank goodness i’m alive.