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• If you had wings, where would you go, what would you do, how long would you stay and would you take anybody with you? posted (6 months, 4 weeks) ago
  I have always wanted wings. I’d be free. I could get food for free, see pretty places for fre…

• Happy Easter folks! posted (7 months, 1 week) ago
  What are your plans for tomorrow and Monday?…

• What do these numbers mean, how do I find out who is a fan, how do I add them as a friend? posted (7 months, 3 weeks) ago
  Favorites, Fans, and Friends 0/6/0…

• How do I delete replies to a post? posted (9 months, 1 week) ago
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• How do I make friends? posted (9 months, 1 week) ago
  real friends that are trustworthy, don’t steal and actually care about me. I will want to hav…

• A Great Recipe for a Peace-Filled life in 2009 posted (9 months, 2 weeks) ago
  I created a post here last night, where is it? Anyway, I’ll restart. A list was sent to me…

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dove7's Top (2) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) Well, my very first post was:
  

  How about:
  “You have hurt me a lot through your words and actions. Although I am happy that you’ve decided to apologize and accept it, I am not willing to accept the behaviour again. I didn’t deserve that, and I would appreciate it if you would give me the space and time that i need in order to heal.”
  
  - written 8 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by Nellie

• (1 vote) I just found out i am pregnent.
  

  Are you ok? get yourself to a clinic. Get some tests done. You need prenatal viatmins for the health of your baby. That baby may not have been planned by you, but that child still deserves health. IF you decide that you are going to give the child to another family, then that family may feel angry and cheated to have to provide extra medical care, because it costs so much.
  
  At 14, sorry to say it, but I think it would be really hard to be a mother. (Unless of course you are rich and have a really wonderfully supportive extended family.) Pregnancy has a huge impact on a girl’s body and mind. Good luck.
  
  - written 9 months, 1 week ago – voted for by ¡ʎuɐɟɟıʇ

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• A Great Recipe for a Peace-Filled life in 2009
  

  Yes, thank you. I am doing well. My physical health is better, for the most part. I’m glad to hear that you can see this “blind date” guy had his own reasons for not contacting you again. He likely has his own reasons, which have nothing to do with you. It’s nice that you can see that. I’m sure that things will be fine when they stay. The only thing that I am worried about is them bringing H1N1 into my house, especially after travelling through airports and such. eeks! (but then again, it’s just paranoia)
  I really must run. Take care and write back soon. :)
  - written 3 weeks, 2 days ago

• A Great Recipe for a Peace-Filled life in 2009
  

  I AM SO HAPPY TO HEAR THAT! It’s nice that things are working out well for you. I told you that you couldn’t possibly be any of the things that your ex was saying. If you were, he wouldn’t keep coming back! He’s dumb for thinking that you’d not discover the truth. Just one more thing to add to the list of reasons why you shouldn’t trust the guy.
  
  Not much happening my way, except that my baby sister is coming back home for a visit with her fiance and just announced that they will be getting married when they are here. She just sent me pictures of the venue and the wedding colours. She asked if they could stay at my place when they come. This should be interesting. I’ll say yes bc I trust her judgment. Anyway, I hope that you are having a good day. take care. Write soon.
  
  Time to start pumpkin carving. :-)
  - written 3 weeks, 2 days ago

• help!
  

  What’s wrong?
  - written 1 month, 3 weeks ago

• I don’t need this
  

  You don’t need to say. That’s ok. I don’t really need to know. Sometimes writing it out can make you feel better, that’s all. I’ve found that writing makes me think of the reasons why I am hurting, then I can address them one by one. Some “reasons” take longer than others. That’s ok. For every one that I address, there is a little bit more peace. I am getting some sense of peace from help that people here have given. I want you to have some peace too. Giving help to others helps me, truth be told. I try hard to be kind. Don’t get me wrong, it doesn’t always work, but it beats being mean and then feeling guilt afterwards. :P The “fight” is that with a person, or with feelings. I find that feelings are much harder to fight.
  
  I learned to ask myself WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY. It helps me to sort out my own head.
  Why do I ________?
  because of ——–.
  
  why does that matter ________?
  because —— and —— happened before.
  
  Why did it happen?
  because ________.
  
  keep going. The root of the problem may not be what shows up immediately in my mind, even though the issue at hand is what is causing the current stress. It’s the
  last reason in my list that is my problem. I need to learn to deal with the LAST thing on my list of whys in order to try to get better.
  - written 1 month, 3 weeks ago

• I don’t need this
  

  Come on, level with me. What did you plan on doing? Putting your head under the bed covers will only make you more lonely. Don’t do that to yourself. It’s harder to get out if you let it get worse. It can be done, but takes longer.
  
  Can you talk about what happened? was it something sudden? Can you take steps to help lessen the effects of anything similar happening again?
  I’m glad that something I said sounds like what you would normally say. That means that you have the knowledge and ability to help yourself. So many people don’t have that.
  
  P.S. You are very welcome.
  - written 1 month, 3 weeks ago

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