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• This just doesn’t make sense! posted (4 months, 3 weeks) ago
  My USB headset, which was working absolutely fine last night, seems to have evolved overnight. Fi…

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• iv never asked for help before so this is a bit strange for me
  

  1) Go and see your doctor and get a referral to your local Mental Health Team. They will be able to support you with what’s going on right now. Otherwise, find a local counsellor who you can see on a weekly basis and arrange and appointment.
  
  2) Mental abuse is just as filthy as physical abuse and YOU DO NOT HAVE TO PUT UP WITH IT. There is a life beyond the abuse and it is VITAL that you get space between him and you. There is nothing to say that he will stop abusing you, no matter what you think. I seriously suggest getting out of that relationship as soon as you possibly can. You need not suffer an abuser.
  
  3) I don’t quite understand why he is taking you to court for your son, but I know that courts typically side with the mother as long as she presents herself well.
  
  4) Remember that you WILL survive this, no matter what. As long as you take care of yourself, and your son, then you two can come out on top. But please, please, get some help and get some distance. No one needs to get hurt. Nor should they.
  - written 4 months, 3 weeks ago

• I believe I am depressed, or something like it.
  

  I would be surprised if any person, who know what true loneliness felt like, was to say that being different is peaches and cream *all* the time. Being an introvert — which you most clearly are — is nothing to be frustrated or overly concerned about. Though I know you say that you are bisexual, and that it is frowned upon where you live, keep in mind that there’s a whole world out ‘there’ and that, even though it might seem a bit awkward now, it’ll ease off as you come into your prime. :]
  
  Without getting too psychobabbly and new agey and whatnot, but I think a part of this problem is also to do with not finding yourself. Or, I don’t know, that you haven’t found your ‘nook’ yet. And that’s okay. You write that people see you as spindly and as having poor coordination — if anything, I think that can give you great elegance and poise if you learn to ‘master’ it.
  
  And, finally, I think one of the most useful things for you to learn would be to be comfortable in your own skin. It’s okay to be you. No, really! If you don’t like it when cyclists come bombing down towards you when you’re off on a walk with your dog, then so be it. Please don’t be under the impression — and don’t let anyone make you think — that you are somehow ‘wrong’ or ‘incorrect’ in feeling how you feel or being who you are.
  
  And it is vereh nice to write sadness down. Concerning the mood changes from others’ comments; have you thought about seeing a school counsellor or speaking to the nurse? They are under no obligation to inform your parents, and so you can tell them everything that’s going on for you in confidence. Just an idea, as all.
  
  Take care!
  - written 4 months, 3 weeks ago

• Hello, I am trying to get a roof for myself and family because even at 21 **** century some poeple do not have their roof.
  

  A quick google search confirms that financial benefits are available for the unemployed in France. No doubt you can get a bit of money from the government if you don’t have a ‘roof’ (which I -assume- means you don’t have a house).
  - written 4 months, 3 weeks ago

• Help, I am so bored at work and angry!
  

  If you don’t like what you do, for whatever reason, then I sincerely suggest you start looking for other job positions elsewhere OR ways to improve your situation in your current job. Can you change your hours? Your position within the organization? Try to look for ways to better your situation than to complain (though a bit of complaining is great every now and again!). :)
  - written 4 months, 3 weeks ago

• i am trying to find the website for busy bees childcare center in king north carolina and google is NOT helping me out.
  

  Did a lot of searching. Couldn’t find anything. Sorrry!
  - written 4 months, 3 weeks ago

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