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• Whats wrong with me? posted (9 months, 1 week) ago
  I have no motivation. All i want to do is hang out with friends, or do things that are fun. I cant …

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• How is weed bad for you?
  

  THC (active chemical in weed) is proven to prevent cancer. it can cause memory loss, and you can become mentally addicted, meaning, it is so enjoyable you just want to do it all the time, not that you have cravings for it.
  
  i smoke it daily, the reasons not to smoke are.
  
  1. risk of getting caught, personlly, i think its worth this risk, i smoke daily and i have never been caught, and you ony get a 200 dollar fine, so its not that bad.
  
  2. money, weed costs a lot, and once you start, your going to want more, so that sucks. But you can grow it if you want, thats basically free.
  
  3. bad for your lungs. if you smoke a lot you will notice doing cardio gets harder.
  
  4. after smoking you feel tired/lazy. weed does not make you lazy, but it can make you tired.
  
  To conclude, to me, the benefits outweigh the risks. If marijuana was legalized those things wouldnt be a problem.
  - written 8 months, 3 weeks ago

• Ugh I feel so horrible thinking my life is getting worse when other people have it worse then i do.
  

  tell her to **** off and go hang out with your friends, if she calls the cops, tell the police what she is doing to you, i bet that will shut her up. If that doesnt work, call for help, abuse is abuse, verbal or physical. also, just know that what she is saying is not true, keep positive.
  - written 9 months, 1 week ago

• I’m so depressed.
  

  ok, you need to ask your self some questions.
  
  what do you want?
  what makes you happy?
  are you willing to change who you are to get what you want?
  are you happy now?
  do you really want to be friends with those kids?
  if not, who do you want to be friends with?
  
  lets start with those, and go from there, i had the same problem as you, and now i am popular, and happy, because popularity is what i wanted. Now, if your happy now, dont change anything. But i wasnt happy, i wanted friends and a social life, i had to change some things to get that, but i was still able to keep my individuality. As for your personality not being “normal”, you need to define what is wrong with you, if anythign at all. my guess is you are unconfident, depressed, and unhappy, and maybe a little crazy. good thing is you can keep the crazy part. no one wants to be friends with a sad, unconfident, and odd kid. its just not gonna happen. if your happy, confident and outgoing, people will like you. go to google and type in “how to be confident” “how to be attractive” “how to be cool” and you will find step by step instructions. sounds stupid, but it helped me.
  - written 9 months, 1 week ago

• This world is like a prison.
  

  You worry to much, look for things in life that make you feel free and happy, and focus on those. dont worry about death until your on your death bed, if your worried about being trapped in your body, go and explore, see all there is to see, do what you want. If others fail around you, do not worry, as they are not your problem, if people are succeeding, be happy for them and try to gain what they have, if you feel it will bring you happiness. And as much as i know most people dont agree with what i am about to say, i really think it will help you. try smoking some marijuana, it changed my life for the better, cleared things up for me, and just made me relax and be happy. if you dont like it, dont do it again, but i really think it could help you, if you use it in moderation.
  - written 9 months, 1 week ago

• Whats wrong with me?
  

  linuxya- thanks for the suggestion, i have found this to be true, but the thing is, the connection between the work that is given to me, and my final goal is so vast it seems non existent, the work seems irrelevant to my goals. how is doing a paper on imaginary numbers get towards my goals? Only like 1% of the worlds jobs use the stuff i am forced to learn. Doing my laundry, doesnt seem like its getting me towards my goals either. But the surprising thing is, it is hard to get motivated even for work that is closely related to getting me towards my goals. I just, cant get myself to do it, i always put it off for something else.
  
  uhlfelde- Its hard to get motivated to work hard then play hard, when i could just play all day, i dont really have to do anything, everything is pretty much provided(i am extremely greatful for this). The only thing i really have to do is my homework, and i dont have the motivation for that because i dont see any negative consequences for not doing it (right now anyway), so its hard to get myself to do work, when i really dont have to. Even though i know i should.
  - written 9 months, 1 week ago

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