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ive been there. and i think everyone feels like this at some point in their life. basically ive just decided, that no matter how i feel for someone, no matter how much i ‘love’ them, i love myself more. noone is allowed to make me feel like that, until they prove to me that they are worth it- and the proof is that they love me in return.

he is. but he works full time, and its alot easier for me to travel. and we are planning to go away for christmas anyway.

well then i guess you have to make a decision, continue feeling like sh*t, or exorcise yourself. dont let the past control you.

yeah, i guess the key is just not to take it so seriously or be so fatalistic. just to see what happens. thanks for the reply!

you need to stop being secretive with how you feel. you need to talk to people and share the grief, in person.

wont see them until december… when my friend and i may go back over christmas, and then again in the summer. but by then, actually travelling to see him will make it so serious. but i really like him, and miss him. but its probably holiday magic and glamour. i know the wisest thing is probably to forget it, but ive forgotten holiday romances in the past, and then when i went back, realised how much id lost. im turning 20 and he is 24, so we could make it work… but what if im just making it into something its not…dreaming and hoping and pining and missing…

as for all these references to menopause; 51 isnt that old!!

i think the overtanned aging women with heavy make up is such a bad cliche. people who tann dont neccessarily wear heavy make up, in fact, in my experience when you go abroad to hotter climates the women are alot more natural. yes alot more tanned, yes wearing alot less sun lotion but just generally more chilled out about their bodies. im definately not a fan of skin cancer, but to me unless someone is naturally very white (which is also very exquisite in its own right) when i get white i know its because i havent been outside enough. to me skin is a big indicator of health. the better looking it is, the better i know im taking care of myself.

and by feed you i mean metaphorically lol. family cover our nakedness. twud be easy to p*ss off to some foreign country, just to be alone, but when you go youll realise you miss who you come from and how much they know about you, and made you. ive been there!
a little trip is always advisable, to explore and broaden our horizons and independance etc. but dont snap connections, just get some space to see your parents for what they are and how much they give up for you, and ultimately love you. any parent that sticks around deserves respect. its such a huge thing to do.

youre not a horrible person. but dispel the myth right now before it makes you resentful, there isnt any such thing as a functional family. look at your friends i guarantee even the most seemingly functual family is completely dysfuctional even for no other reason then their complete functionality. in fact, by conventional standards your family is alot more functional then my own. and my prob is loving too much people that just screw me over. so youre not a horrible person, but dont bite the hand that feeds you.

if she does get pregnant, it wont be yours; its almost impossible; semen cant survive that long in high temperatures, and theyre not that good at swimming.

im very happy today, because i have a ticket to hong kong and some great plans for when i get there; they may not happen, it might suck, but the hope is enough for today.

lol well to be honest its a bit of a joke/serious/joke mission among my friends and i. not to sex up, just to kiss.
so heres the question; does mixed mean youve kissed someone from two countries? or neither?

applied tan can be messy, but its nice because it feels like you’re wearing a second skin. as for a natural tan? it makes me feel more healthy, and more happy (because tan equals sunshine equals vit d equals happy hormones) and i associate it with holiday. also tanns hide blemishes, and make you look slimmer.

man that statement is more like a de-accomplishment. there are an infinate amount of body shapes, colours and even religion when it comes to women. to think otherwise shows you know sooo little about us. a man who can conquer women, will be the man who knows they are compppppletely unconquerable.