littleredhen's shoutbox - Help.com

I’ve been on and off some too. Good to hear you’re doing okay!

im doing good now

its been a while since ive been on srry about that

i have limited computer use now
i just trying to fix things here
what about you???

yeah i think so…..
im just really really lonely now…..
this site is 1 of the few things i still can do without thinking about it u know??

hey im ok sortta…just dealing with the pain and lonelyness right now….she was FUCKEN MESSING WITH ME…when that “dude answer her phone” (srry about the all caps thing im a lil pissed now)…but yeah we r broken up now

Hi Lit! Most welcome. If you want to talk about your rough weekend or about anything, don’t hesitate to give me a shout out. I’m willing to listen. I hope your weekend ends well. Don’t worry. Things always get better. Yeah. It feels good to be in love and to love and be loved. I’m ok. Thanks for asking.

littleredhen wrote:
Thanks pink. This helps me a lot. I definitely need to be more brave. I am totally afraid of saying it first because that makes me think I’m the one to feel it first and therefore am in a position to get hurt. I hope it all works out. Thank you!

Most welcome and very glad to help. Be brave. You have to take risks every now and then. Saying it first, or saying it last, either way, doesn’t guarantee that you’d get hurt or you wouldn’t get hurt. When you love, you just love. You don’t love because you are assured that you won’t get hurt…YOu love cause you do, cause you just love.

It’s not gonna be a smooth road but do know that the bumps in the road is what keeps life interesting…Otherwise, it’s a flat line… Don’t be too afraid of pain. Pain is part of life and pain makes you stronger. Also, Kahlil Gibran said that the greatest gift in love is brought by the greatest pain in love…meaning, love can sometimes be painful but the pain is worth bearing because of the joy, the completeness, you find in love.

Valentine Song
Dearest, let these roses
In their purity,
Be a present symbol
Of my love for thee.
Underneath the blossom
Thorns are sure to grow;
Take heed lest you touch them,
They would pain you so!
Ah! my faults like thorns are,
But cannot they be
Hidden ‘neath the flower
Of my love for thee?
Robert Argyle Campbell

Alfred Tennyson:
I hold it true, whate’er befall;
I feel it, when I sorrow most;
‘Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all

I’d take on all the pain in this world, take all the risk of getting hurt, the break-ups, the wrong relationships..all of it…just to find the right guy…I’d go to the ends of the earth. I’d rather get hurt over and over in trying to find my soul mate than be safe in my own haven but never finding my other half cause I was too afraid to try.

Be careful as to who to love and how to love. But do love.

Hi, yes, I turned 100 on Monday.
I guess you weren’t really trying to help then, and you haven’t ever had anyone jealous of you before. You’re lucky.

This kid is such a little dick. I bet he dresses is gucci and his hair’s always neat and tidy, and he’s got a computer in his room, and mommy loves him LMAO ROTFL

It’s so addictive. I just can’t help wondering why I even post on help.com myself, it makes me feel so completely .. impotent. I mean, OK, splurge and rant, but then get on with you life right??? Damn.

so right… I’ve been feeling that for ages. Can’t figure out if my intuition is flawed or not. Pretty sure that this anon is really whining … or what?