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• I am lonely, very lonely.
  

  You most certainly did not offend me at all. You were kind and courteous and concerned…all very good things.
  
  I look forward to being here.
  - written 8 months, 3 weeks ago

• If you have trouble running, walking will do:)
  

  Thanks for the invite! Reading this, I am really touched that you took the time out of your very busy schedule to read about my little problem. You’re a really great guy!
  - written 8 months, 4 weeks ago

• I am lonely, very lonely.
  

  I appreciate your point of view. I would like to suggest that we respectfully “agree to disagree”. He actually has stuck by me and still supports me financially and emotionally. But…it is pointless to argue. I’m just glad that you care enough about my happiness to post your opinion and your concern.
  
  Thank-you. I look forward to making friends here. Everyone so far seems very nice and I hope I can contribute as much help as I receive. I have a bit of a limitation on how much time I can spend at the computer, so I have my worries about being able to keep up, but I will do my best.
  - written 8 months, 4 weeks ago

• Creativity; What is it to you ?
  

  Hmmmm…this post has me thinking. I used to be a lot more creative in my life than I am now. I remember when I used to work in childcare that I would set up the most wonderful experiences for the children and it would be fun for me too! The children in my classes used to get very dirty and I would warn parents not to dress them too nicely. Children learn through their senses and play. They have to be allowed to touch and manipulate and explore. I used to get such a feeling of accomplishment and fullfillment. Those were some really good times. Playdough, sand, spaghetti in tubs, all kinds of colors of fingerpaint, mud, water tables, planting seeds and watching them grow, cooking, building, making music with most any kind of instrument…I could go on and on.
  
  I need to re-create those times for myself now. Thank-you for reminding me.
  - written 8 months, 4 weeks ago

• I am lonely, very lonely.
  

  Thank-you, that helps!
  
  Here’s the scoop on our arrangement. Well, he met her online and didn’t tell me about it. Then he went to see her and they slept together. He told me about it after the fact. We talked about it and he felt really bad, but he had feelings for her. He still loved me too and he didn’t know what to do. I decided that it was better to share him than to lose him altogether, especially since I wasn’t meeting his needs. So he asked my forgiveness, I forgave him, and we have this arrangement.
  
  He’s supporting me because I can’t hold down a job and I’m trying to get SSDI but it’s been 6 years and they keep turning me down. He’s really a very sweet and wonderful man and I love him very much.
  
  I think it would help if I were better at making friends and all, but I have a very hard time with it.
  - written 8 months, 4 weeks ago

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loneliness, depression, fibromyalgia