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• Men are SO STUPID sometimes..
  

  Haha, I support this statement… Most men are pretty stupid. There are a few good ones out there, but they are hard to find. I hate to say it, but we don’t choose who we love. We also have a tendency to want what we can’t have… just as you want a man you can’t have and he wants a woman he can’t have. I would suggest becoming unavailable to him, but what would that really get you? Satisfaction- yes. But once you became available again he probably wouldn’t be interested anymore. I know you can’t choose who you love either, but I would suggest trying to find someone else to occupy your mind until you are over this other guy.
  - written 8 months, 4 weeks ago

• I no longer want to live.
  

  I know this is a really hard thing to go through and I’m sorry you have to deal with this. The pain of ending a relationship cuts like a knife and seems to never let up. I don’t know if you are male or female, but if you are female the book He’s Just Not That Into You helped me through a breakup (believe it or not). It helps you through all the steps of realizing that relationships end for a reason. Even if you were not the person who ended it… they had a reason and you just can’t see it yet. Remember- there is someone out there who will NEVER put you through this kind of pain because they will love you unconditionally forever. This is hard, but there is something better out there. Take some deep breaths, sit down, and flip on the tv to a funny show and get lost in another world. Time will help, but you just need to get through it and you will be ok. I promise… you will be ok.
  - written 8 months, 4 weeks ago

• Whats the best way to follow up Hi & How are you
  

  well i would make it a point to not hit on her right away. girls dont want to hear “you have the most beautiful eyes i have ever seen” because it’s cheesy and we’ve heard it before. be original! questions are good… open ended ones especially. i don’t know the background of your situation so i can’t give you a good example but talk to her about where you are or something she is doing.
  - written 8 months, 4 weeks ago

• Hi.
  

  i feel the same way when i’m in a group of people. i try to find a small group of people or someone standing alone. it’s good to ask open ended questions, especially questions about them because people love to talk about themselves!
  - written 8 months, 4 weeks ago

• I’m entirely alone?
  

  that’s a really hard situation to be in. a great way to meet new people is to network with anyone you do know. for example… if you have a least 1 person in your life try to go out with them and get to know their friends. also, i’ve noticed with guys that if you can do any kind of mechanics or fix-it-up kind of stuff they will call on you to help and that usually builds the manly friendship.
  - written 8 months, 4 weeks ago

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