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• So more news. posted (1 week, 2 days) ago
  So im still in tons of pain. I found out last night when i went to see the chiropractor, that i hav…

• So i havent been on here in a while. posted (2 weeks) ago
  Thats kind of surprising but not at the same time. Im doing so much better its unbelievible! Well af…

• Im so disgusted with child abuse right now! posted (3 weeks, 2 days) ago
  I was on facebook and a video of Kelsey Briggs came up. If anyone knows the story your probably ju…

• Update on my dad: posted (1 month, 1 week) ago
  He has a degenerative disk disease. Its mainly due to having worked for the same company, doing th…

• My dad had a minor stroke :( posted (1 month, 1 week) ago
  Hes slurring his words really bad. His arms are locked up and tingling severely because they are nu…

• Is there something logically wrong with me or am i just that stupid? posted (1 month, 2 weeks) ago
  I have been afraid of the dark since i was little. Always thought something was in my closet or un…

• So we moved offices! posted (1 month, 3 weeks) ago
  Its fun working in a high-rise building with undergroud parking. The view is AMAZING!The ladies tha…

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~willard~'s Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) I hate my parents!
  

  You hates your parents because they grounded you for cutting teddy bears heads off? Wow thats lame. Not to be rude but grow up and have some respect for the people that give you everything. And if you say they dont, look up.. yup theres a celing, in the kitchen is there food? Did you buy all that food? Im guessing not.. just learn to respect them or you will regret it. A parent is a powerful thing and you will learn that someday….
  
  - written 3 months ago – voted for by Estrella

• (1 vote) Having manic depression is tearing me apart.
  

  Hun theres so much that you dont see though. Your their each day for your family right? And thats all that matters. Your husband wouldnt have married you if he didnt love you and want you to be with him and well. Im kind of in the same boat but not exactly. My boyfriend is amazing and helps me with all that he can. Sometimes i feel that he wants to give up on me or is just getting sick of me. It hurts me and makes me wish i was doing more but what can we do when we have problems? We just have to deal with them. Im learning one day at a time how to do that but its tough.
  
  - written 3 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by fmcclain537

• (1 vote) My two sons dad has a new girl friend and her son is very disrespectful to them when they are not around them.
  

  Ok so heres what you can do and also what i suggest. Talk to both the ex and his new girlfriend together with your kids. Make it all 100% clear! Life shouldnt be made this difficult especially when their your kids. You have a right to them and if they are not happy with it then you can change it.
  
  - written 4 months ago – voted for by cazjayne6

• (1 vote) My Husband Lied
  

  Well it sounds like the main issue here is that he needs to stop drinking. If you say that he uses it as his outlet, and he stood you up on your plans for that night, then what is going on with him that he has to lie about being out with friends and at a bar? Sounds like he is having some personal issues and you should really have a talk with him. As his wife you deserve to be let in to what is going on. You guys married each other for love, and the eternal kinmanship that you will share. So that you will never technically be alone because you will have each other.
  
  - written 4 months, 1 week ago – voted for by ~Butterfly~

• (1 vote) In another addition to my post, matthew lee bregman,
  

  Uhhh… ok well you can stop with the “Formal request” thing because since you are posting, that kinda means that you ARE a member so… welcome?
  
  - written 5 months, 1 week ago – voted for by whythelackoffreedomh

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• I just have something I need to get off my mind, But
  

  All people do that. Why do you think they make movies? WHere do they get the ideas for movies. Real life! lol. WHats bugging you about it then? WHat do you need to get off your chest?
  - written 14 hours, 35 minutes ago

• ok so my wife just told me shes an alcoholic, how can i help her tackle it and make sure she keeps her job at the same time?
  

  There are many good rehabilitation centers all over the country. May i ask why you are just finding out?
  - written 14 hours, 37 minutes ago

• I just have something I need to get off my mind, But
  

  Same here.. all female. so whatcya need help with?
  - written 14 hours, 39 minutes ago

• If you could tell one person you love them, who would it be?
  

  Thats a really hard question. Theres a lot of people in yourt life that you love. Why does it only have to be limited to one person?
  
  For this purpose i would have to tell God that i love him. I truly do and cant wait to be beside him forever.
  
  But truly there are many. Parents, friends, relatives, teachers, our heros, etc. I love my boyfriend with all my heart and will for the rest of my life but does that mean i have to tell him first? Or what about my parents, they raised me! lol.. see…
  - written 14 hours, 40 minutes ago

• ok my gf caught me cheating and we have a child together
  

  [quote footballfreek0]i just dnt want to lose her thats all i mean i love her so much and idk wat to do with out her[/quote]
  
  Thats a very cute name! If you love her that much then this is what you do : MAN UP! Tell her that shes all you want and need and that your going to be there for her and the child. If she gets all crabby then just put her in her place gently so that you dont look forceful but she really needs to listen and grow up. A Baby is very precious and needs to have th utmost care and the two of you not getting along WILL affect the child as he grows up. So talk to her! ANd if you can give us an update too!
  - written 14 hours, 43 minutes ago

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