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Hey hows ya doing?

Well you can always check it out. You never know. Maybe there’s a good deal on :) And boss wise, screw him! Your father if your father. That would be just too damn bad! I’m sorry tough :(

Is there any way you can get there more cheaply? Like by bus? I’m sorry :( I know it must be rough. I’m here anytime you want to talk. Is your bf helping you through this?

My dad was in the military for the first 10 years of my life. It sucked. I did read it. That’s great :) But I’m sorry he has to have surgery :( How’s he making out? Maybe you can send him cards, pictures or something along with the phone calls.

Well you seem to be doing pretty well already. If you need anything or want to talk you know where I am. :)

Hiya hun, how are you holding up? xx

*Hugs* xx

Ok now i feel like a jerk. i’m sorry.

Maybe send him a little something every week or every other week to remind him he’s loved and that you are thinking of him?

Maybe you can send him something to cheer him up? A card with your picture or….something?

Is there any way you can go see him for a visit? like a week or so?

I know….but that’s life. I know it sounds harsh but everyone lives and every dies. it’s inevitable. You can’t save him when it’s his time. I’m sorry. I know it sucks. Life isn’t easy. You know my dad was in the military. He went away for 6 mos a few times and a few weeks other times. I remember being terrified out of my mind at less than 10 years old that he would die in the war torn country and I’d never see him again. Then he had a heart attack. There have been so many times where I’ve been scared that I’d lose him. SO I do understand. But you can’t control his fate. I’m sorry :( I am here for you, I do understand what you’re going through. ALl you can do is tell him you love him, that you’re there for him and if he needs anything to let you know.

from the post i mean

Hey, is any of the info helping?

Exactly! Which means you couldn’t have done anything!

Don’t apologize. It’s only natural to feel that way. But still it isn’t your fault. How can you not being there cause your dad a stroke? explain that.

Hon, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. You moving away wouldn’t have changed ANYTHING. He STILL would of had his stroke. You had NOTHING to do with what happened. You can’t stop your life for your dad. He wouldn’t want you to either.

Hey, you ok? I’m here anytime all you have to do is shout or email me!

And thanks. I’m here for you too.

I’m sorry. I’m glad you wouldn’t do such a thing. I didn’t mean to hurt you at all! I am a very honest person and I try never to lie which I never do to the ones I care about. I don’t know how to deal with things either except I don’t have anyone to help me. I like the affirmations idea but no idea what mine would be :(

Hey you are on. I hope I didn’t sound mean on email. I just meant that life is tough and bad things happen unfortunately. And I imagine it’s hard on your bf when you get suicidal right? I just things you should learn how to deal with things better and let me tell you I’m on the same boat there. I’m not suicidal ever, I would never do that to my bf plus I don’t want to be with out him, but I have a hard time dealing with EVERYTHING even the small things!

Hi, just emailed you back lol. i’m sorry you feel like shit today. hope you feel better! i have to go to the dentist (teeth problems, in pain!) and i have to take it out of the wedding fund (we’re broke!) and we just passed the $1000 and we were so proud of ourselves and it’s about to go down the drain and i feel so down and so sad and upset today…

Hey, Amanda, what’s going on - is that office window stil as inspiring as it was last week?

I’m sorry. OK well I don’t know if I got it lol depends on what it said I guess…..

Pretty good. Tired today. Can’t wiat to get off lol

Hi Amanda. How are ya today?

My email is open to you. I see that someone has been stalking your post and I understand that you may want to leave here for a while. I just did not want to loose touch with you. If you email me, I will tell you of another site that I go to and is good. I just don’t want to post it here. I don’t want the stalker to see it.

It’s beyond my nderstanding why your mom would do that, I really feel for you & hope that you get your anti-depressants sorted because withdrawel will only make things worse.. not very positive of me to say that is, but can’t deny the truth.

I’m praying for you. I’m praying for allot of people lately, maybe it’s the season - please don’t lose hope - there’s just so much happening but there will be some relief again, you can endure this, you’ve made it this far, you’re a strong person; stay safe, take care.

Very weird. Not sure why he did it again. I think he may have been just trying to help but it seems a bit silly to have done it so soon after scaring you.
I’m watching what happens. Shout me with any further developments.
Ditz (Mod)

darling if you want to you can e-mail me at this adress
edina_keresztes @ yahoo. com
see you darling
take care

Hi Amanda, it’s so good to read you have a therapist and I really hope it works for you to keep all the stress under control.

I know I haven’t been online for a while; depression sometimes just takes over, but I think you can understand what that’s like.

So much going on in your life, I try to read all the posts you made to understand again what happened and where you’re path is going at the moment.

Hope you’re having a good day - lots of *hugs* Siggy.

Groovy. If anything happens again either report it or shout me :)
Sorry he gave you such a scare. It would have scared me too and I think he realizes that now.
Ditz (Mod)

Ok. Well, I spoke to Anonymous and he tells me it was mostly a joke. He was reacting to accusations in a bad way, seeing it partly as a joke, which went horrible wrong.

You should read the shout-trail between me and him for more understanding.

I’m not going to ban him. He did receive a hefty warning about linking FB accounts and that if he does it again he will be gone. If anything happens again please report it. I will jump right on it.

Ditz (Mod)

Hey.

I got Nat’s report. Figured I’d come directly to you (and also the Anonymous) to find out what is going on.
Please do not approach the Anonymous person. He did identify himself in my shoutbox but I do not want any body getting hurt. Let me deal with that bit. I will be asking him what is going on also.

In the meantime, I have deleted your FB link from the post, since he had no right to post it. That was pretty stupid and dangerous to do.

Still trying to figure everything out here.
Ditz (Mod)

if he was in jail before or was in jail right now I’d be flipping out a hell of a lot more. i’d be a WAY bigger mess than I am now.

Mine’s just my lung problems. one of those tough shit pains. no he isn’t in jail still. he didn’t go to jail at all! he got arrested, went to the cop shop, talked to them and made a statement, got finger printed, pic taken and then he got to go home. was in there for a little over an hour. it is horrible and terrifying but the cops said my fiance shouldn’t go to jail at all as it is his first offense and it WASN’T a violent offense either.

I’m sorry :( I’m sore today too~ my lungs. I’m doing okay. Really trying to be there for my fiance. Talked to him for an hour at lunch and i only panicked for about 10 min or so which is better than what I have been doing. I’m really trying but the panic still sneaks up on me.

crap i deleted your email address by accident :( is their any way i can get it again?

Hey, it’s me. changed my name from Nat to IDon’tEVerQuit again. how are you holding up today?

go to search, go down to username close to the bottom and type in ditzy. her name comes up

Not sure…..I’ll see if I can find her….let me know if you find her K?

Weird…not sure I believe that…..

hey read the post with the maybe cyber stalker…his last comment says he turned himself into ditzy and any questions, comments etc will have to through her?

ok well if i don’t get to talk to you, let me know how you are doing and have a good day K?

it’s okay hon. you are OK. seriously. i reported him already.

yeah….well report him I guess. don’t know if that will help but worth a shot….he’s unbelievable! what a jerk

you mean YOU posted it after he did? Why? I’m sure you will make lots of progress :)

I know. Just think though. Could he just be picking on you cause he’s a jerk and maybe just randomly picked you? i mean you posted your facebook link right? and you’ve written about your parents before right? Is it possible?

sooooo i am assuming that facebook profile is bs…or do you recognize it?