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• I need help finding marriage support groups, low cost
  

  Look at www. masstimes.org for a local Catholic church and talk to the priest they can help for little or no cost.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• i can not take it anymore i want out of my marriage
  

  See a marrige councler see a priest go to www.masstimes.org to find a church see if you can salvage your marrage.
  - written 1 year, 6 months ago

• my life sucks i just feel like killing myself i’ve
  

  The devil wants you to kill yourself because yo’ll die with him talk to a priest go to church www.masstimes.org
  [quote libbyc]Dear friend, I’ve been just like you and thought things would never get better. But I’m living proof that they can. It sounds like you are panicking all the time, just like I was doing until I tried suicide and was hospitalized last September. While in the hospital a chaplain talked to me about how it hurts so bad when we realize we don’t have total control over our lives. But I slowly learned that I can control (not always, but mostly) my panicking. I want you to do some things: First of all, call churches until you find a pastor who will help you decide if you can stay in this marriage. Your husband sounds like bad news, and I think you are terrified to leave and try to be on your own.
  
  Find some free counseling, or call a women’s shelter–somebody will talk with you and help you figure out something. There is help for people in your situation–but you have to talk to people to find out where it is.
  
  To help you calm down, if you can go to a free clinic, please go and get some med for anxiety. There are some really good ones.
  
  To help you think better–if you can, go to counseling somewhere. But if you can’t, please do what I am doing. I am studying 3 books that help me be stronger no matter what mess is going on. One book is called “Faith for Personal Crises” by Carl Michalson”. It is dirt cheap at Alibris books and it is awesome. Even if you don’t have faith now, reading that book will give you faith and hope. Then, read from the Bible–Psalms, Isaiah (Here is Isaiah 43: Fear not, you are mine. When you pass through the water, I will be with you; in the rivers you shall not drown. When you walk through the fire, you shall not be burned) Also First Peter 5:7 Cast all your cares on Him because He cares for you! Stay calm and aware. Your enemy the devil is prowling like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, solid in your faith, realizing that the brotherhood of believers is undergoing the same sufferings throughout the world. But God, in Christ, will himself restore, strengthen, and establish those who have suffered a little while.
  
  Last of all, can I give you some tips I have learned to help myself calm down, no matter how upset and afraid I am. I have learned to say to myself, “Hey, there’s no point in trying to mentally force everything to change–I try to just accept that it is bad, but I’ll deal with it one day, one hour, one minute at a time. Or to put it another way, my Mama used to say, “You ain’t supposed to get all high about things!.” Yes, your life sucks right now! Yes, it’s not fair that you are stuck in a rotten marriage, and that society is not providing you all with enough money for you to feel secure. It sucks out loud, honey. But with the Lord’s help you can take it, and you can take steps, just one step at at time, to make things better. Call people, look for help, find ways to calm down, find faith by reading the Bible. Don’t give up. I will pray for you tonight.
  
  Libbyc[/quote]
  - written 1 year, 6 months ago

• my life sucks i just feel like killing myself i’ve
  

  If you are contemplating suicide call emergency services (911 in most places) NOW get help get marige councling but remember killing yourself will send you to hell read this passage
  
  “And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.” Revalation 20:15
  - written 1 year, 6 months ago

• ok there was this guy that i was good friends with that my mom hated ((he had a mohawk)) and she immeadiatly judged him for that.
  

  Good Job! Pre marital sex is wrong I’m glad you know right and wrong you did the right thing, ****. Maria Goretti was killed because she refused to have sex. you were smart.
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

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