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your welcome and thanks for the advice you gave me…I didnt use it, but Im feeling crazy sometimes so who knows? maybe another time? lol!

hey I just thought I’d let you know that I told him I liked him and he was really nice about it. Unfortunately the whole marriage thing cant be changed, but he still wants to keep in contact and be friends. :)

Hang in there - anything I can do to help?

I’m waiting on a flight to Montreal, maybe help me lighten up a bit.

um not really… But i’ll be fine soon enough.

How are you?

You like it? To be honest I don’t remember where I found it. It’s actually a desktop wallpaper made really really really small. I really don’t like real tattoos but liked the picture anyhow since half the dragon is not painted on the body.

Haha whatever floats your boat.

Yeah, it was a nice area. Horse farm down the road, lots of trees.

In Minnesota now, which essentially sucks in every way known to man.

So you lived in Frayser? That’s cool.

I lived here most my life but I was born in Cali and lived in Texas for a little while.

Where do you live now?

Oh, why’d you put Memphis in your profile?

Yeah, I’m live in Memphis.

You’re from Memphis, TN?

Why don’t you ask her idea on it?

hahah oh thanks.

Hahaha it’s the life of being a teenager =)

I like the first idea better. Introducing her to someone else maybe a little weird for her. if they don’t like each other it could ruin the day. So save the matchmaking for later lol.

Hmmm well i have cousins and family who live near Montreal but i don’t think they or I know anything about that…hmmm
I don’t know this womens likes or dislikes so i’ll just go with general ideas.
You could take her to her favorite resteraunt. If se likes dancing and clubs that would be a good idea. maybe look places up in Montreal that seem cool and you don’t think she’s been there before, something new and that she’d like.

Lol i just woke up so my mind isn’t in fully idea mode but basically do things she likes or you really think she would like. I can try to think of more ideas wen my brain is in full motion =P

It is good to have strong opinions, if you can genuinely respect another person’s point of view. Not always easy.

My username is actually a chopped off “ryanman”, don’t know if I can change it. Yeah, I’m a guy (like that’s not obvious) and yes again, quite old compared to most here.

Got started here ’cause I have a heartbreak problem, them stayed. I used to do counseling to teens & young adults and I kinda miss it.

Well I’ve been told that I don’t reflect my profile. I was depressed when I wrote it. I more outgoing and not as boring as my profile may seem.

I think I might be slightly close minded, but I do respect what others believe.. And that’s all I ask in return.

The close-minded thing probably has a lot to do with being young and thinking I know everything. lol

What about you? Who is Ryanma? A guy? How old?

That’s not good at all. Well since you can somewhat relate, does it get any better? Also do you think I have metal health issues?

Yeah, I’m being awful serious tonight for a guy who’s embroiled in a debate over the length of fingernails. ‘night…

Well i wish you the best of luck!! Let me know how it goes. Go get her!! lol =)

Awh thats too bad. Sounds to me like she wasn’t ready. But you never know, you could get a second chance one day.

Alright i’ll read it. Lol i’m sure your not a lamer.

Haha not YET =P

How did you mess things up? (if you don’t mind me asking of course)

Lol, i didn’t know canadian girls had more too say. =o

Yeah i talk this way too. But my mood can sometimes change that. This is neutral though =)

Hahaha well it depends on the girl. Sometimes when you listen to all that meaningless chatter we say something useful in there =P
But most of the time we just talk alot =)

Lol i guess thats true. Us women just know how to talk =P

No problem, i tried lol. I’m not much help.