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Its funny how all of us are alone and crying the same pain.
Surrounded by people, yet we cry our loneliness.

Anonymus, there must be something bothering you; depression doesn’t just come out of nowhere; you have to think and deal with what is bothering you. I’m sure it’s something big but worth fighting against.(Maybe ask for professional help if you see that you can not deal with it by yourself.)

By the way maximinia, I have to agree with you. It also bothers me quite a lot when “People try to state their opinions as facts”. You just used the perfect words.

What If I told you there’s no God nor no Evil?
What If I told you those are just parts of us, just like you are good sometimes you can also be bad.
If you want to believe these 2 statements of mines, you will also agree that nor Heaven or Hell exist. Those were methods the church missused to make people do what they wanted in earlier years.

We, Humans, need to believe of a superior being because there are many things that cannot be explained by sicence or logic.
I’m not sure who’s that superior being or if it actually exists.

It’s a thought I still havent got totally straight and that I probably wont ever have straight since religion is such a complex and delicate subject.

In the end, It’s all about what makes you happy. Do you want to believe in god? Do you want to believe in another religion? It’s quite hard to have the exact truth these days but as I said before you might want to believe religion exists or not depending on your own opinions and state of knowledge.

I know this doesn’t answer your question…but I felt like posting my view :>
-Hope It doesnt bother you.

Shuunnn the non believer! Shunn!!!

Haha ironic, I once had a gf like that.
She had me scared all the time, and she was insanely jealous.(I have No idea how I ended up hooked with someoen like her, so dont ask).
When I tried breaking up with her she said she would suicide and she cut her arm.
I told her she could suicide if she wanted but it was over.
The girl never suicided, and I continued my life….dont let sick people like those control your actions, people like that are not worth your time.

WOah I love it.

Could you do one about fighting the world alone? and not letting it beat you? Fight with pain until death? I’d love to see one of those :D

Mate, cry all you want, that’s good…it cleans the heart. Cutting yourself is the only thing you shouldnt be doing tho, you’re not ending the pain(suicide) nor you’re living in peace..which burdens you more and it brings you nothing in the end but some nice scars in the arms that everyone will critizise(Mostly girls) and you might lose some oportunities because you will scare people off.
I highly recommend you to get into an activity…a sport, something that you can do very well or something that passionates you(Even if you’re not exactly good at it), keep yourself busy so that you dont think in how bad your life is right now. Keep hope up, something out there’s out to help you ! I know it’s comming, you just wait :>

Yeah..I was about to say some negative comment too.
I hope it lastes the longest possible :)

You got it man :p

Hey there, I want to be honest, I have absolutely no idea of what you’re going through, but here’s my perspective about your situation. You look like a strong mature man that will get over this but still I’d like to give you a little of advice and that is, whenever you get some money in your pocket..subscribe yourself to a gym or get into an open-sport team(open is for those who just want to play for fun). Sports and second activities take off a lot of stress and I’m sure that’d help you out.

Sorry for not giving you a more complex help.
But I hope that helps in something even if its small.

Woah man, I can relate to you in everything but the abusive part of your step dad and the cocaine with your mom. I know you’re going through some tough time. Me too I’ve wanted to blow my head off in the past 3 years, I’ve always had an indeisirable life but only when I thought it couldn’t get worse, it did.
My advice is, dont give up….You have all your life ahead of you and “After the storm comes the calm”. Maybe it will take some time, but it’ll get there(Or at least I keep telling myself that everyday I wake up and everynight I go to sleep).
I’ve got a question for you tho, what do you think about what your mother is doing? Would you like to follow her path? I’m not talking about cocaine, but the fact that she’s hurting herself and the ones around her. I can see that you are a strong guy, otherwise you wouldn’t be here today to tell the story, so fight it, fight it, because you can do it.
About the girl, if she means somthing to you, talk to her..tell her not to be so distant, tell her you want to talk to her like you used to, tell her you are sorry if you did something wrong and you’d like things to continue to be the same. You’re shy, but girls are just girls….you’ve made it until here, why not talk to some girl :)?
Finally, eat. Eat because your body needs to eat, I dont like eating, I never feel like eating. I have an ulcer. It’s relly not worth it, even if you dont feel like it or if the food is bad…eat enough to survive, you wont regret it later on.
I hope I was of some help mate, I’ll be checking this board for if you answer back and if you want to talk more then I’ll be here to help you with my best.

Feeling sad in shorts periods of times is okey, it happens to everyone.
Tho, If you feel sad all the time, there must be a problem and you have to fight it before just the fact of feeling sad transforms itself in depression which is like sadx100 In kid’s terms :)

Hey there, and welcome!
=)