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Start meeting new people..that’s the only help you can get to yourself to solve the love situation.

Well, you could start thinking about how your life will be when he gets tired of you treating him like that, relationships are supposed to be balanced, but in many cases people tend to be over the other one(Why? dont ask me).
My advice, everytime you feel the need of agressying him in an enmotional way you should wait a few seconds, and say something nice instead.
Try to find deep inside of you what’s the need of the agression, is it because you are scared because he’s too good?(Some people are, I’ve met a few), is it because you enjoy it?(Not the best thing in my opinion.
Try talking a little more about it so other people can give you better answers, It’s kinda hard to explain how a picture looks like if the place is too dark to examinate it ;)

Bah, I help girls with this all the time.
Too bad we’re not in the same school/place of work or I’d help you too.
Tho, there are a few advices I could give you just so you don’t jump in to the wolf’s mouth with your eyes closed.
Ask around to people who you trust if he likes a girl, if he does then you probably don’t have much chance.
Work on him slowly but giving it away, many guys will get totally scared and run from you if you out of randomness say you like them..but if you let them know little by little they might aswell start liking you and maybe you wont have to do any of the work….he’ll end up doing it ;).
Finally..Talk to him whenever you get the chance, I’ve seen girls who would give their lifes for guys they dont even talk to, in other words…you just dont wanna let your oportunities go.
If you try those and still need some more, send me a message or reply to this post, I’ll be checking :>.

Get into new activities man, it’s up to you to look for them, in the end…It’s not me the one bored but you.
If you dont like swimming then stop. Your dad is not going to kill you for doing it. what is he going to say? “I hate you son, get away from me forever because you dont like swimming”. I have quite the feeling he won’t say that and you also have to learn to fight for what you want, it’s not your dad living your life, it’s you.

(By the way…the girl situation…gee I’m stuck in there too ;P)

Bam, I agree with -lilies-.
There’s just not much to say more than that.

Well “Blonde” has nothing to do with it at all.
Mr.right Is kind of hard to find and ussually teen-ager relationships are not exactly the most lasting relationships you will have in your life.
My advice, stick to that guy because you love him(Or like him a lot), he doesn’t have to be mr.right, you dont have to marry him. Have him be your boyfriend, spend time with him, have fun. When you grow up more and are more mature you will be able to see by yourself if the person you are currently with is “That” person, other than that, keep it going! =).

Ohh I know some about this!
Depends what are you doing, long distance or short distance.

If you are running long distances (More than 800 meters at least)
You could start running 3Km’s every 3 days to let the muscles rest and since you are just starting you wont get hurt.
Do strechings before you start your running.(Not sure what they are called)
Also, start quite slow, like joggying, then you go a little faster and faster, you will see yourself flying afterwards.
Ask your coach for literal instructions tho, since I just know details because I did some track and field in school but I’m no pro.

If you are running short distances (From a 100meters to 800meters)
My advice to you is to focus on doing Many sprints of whatever you want to run in the meets you want to qualify for.
Check the times over and over again.(Or get someone to time you)
This one, you should start doing the sprints every 1 day (By this I mean, run today, dont run tomorrow, run after tomorrow, leave 1 day to relax in betwen of every training session and later on do it everyday.
I encourage a lot the streching, if you like a sport a lot, you DONT want to get injured, trust me.

Dont go with the usual “Push yourself hard!” , “Reach for more!” .
What is reach for more? how hard am I supposed to push? That, you have to ask your coach, relly..they know their stuff =)

Hahaha bubble.
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…Not funny.

Kelsey, If you dont know whether you like the guy or not, leave him alone, I’m sure you listen to your friends saying quite a lot the “Guys are full of themselves” stories and how those guys dumped them and made your friends feel bad.
I’m quite sure you dont want to be just like those people who make other suffer for no aparent reason or just for indescicion.
-But again, It’s up to you anyways.

Ohh Bam, how old are you? Marriage is quite the big deal. Something to think about carefully.
I agree with ntalon4(quite the name you got there). Dont get invoved with some other guy while you havent finished things with the first one.
And Just watch your steps, think before doing something stupid.

Oh my god, If you could please write it in good sentences I’d try and help but like this is impossible.

Haha you people are amazing.
She’s calling you “Cute little dumb blonde”.
Dont play her game. Tell her straight, “Do not insult me like that please”
Be Firm but Agresive at the same time, if you also say things with Respect she’ll stop calling you that.
Most of all, she will see that you are no idiot.

Haha 3 words (And believe me, is not “I Love you”)
Is more like, “Not Worth It”.

I agree with the first poster, you’re in the right track so keep following it and Get professional help.

I ditto that, you shouldnt break up a friendship because of a guy, in the end you will end up breaking up with the guy and you will also have lost your best friend.

Join the club, I wish I had an answer for that..