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I choose neither, because there is no way to choose one in reality, for the rest of my life. If I were to choose money now, would that mean I must give up the love of my life? If I were to choose love, would I need to be jobless and boycott the banks? No, of course not. We make these choices day to day because we need to have the proper information input, ie meeting the love of your life. And when that time is upon you, then ask yourself a similar question. But to ask it now, would be like making a life decision, without knowing why.

Just remember it’s an important question and is worth taking your time, so use it. Although most serious questions are worth a hefty amount of time, like what you should have for dinner tonight. But we forget that in such a stimulating and fast paced society.

The fear of death is what drives many people to irrational behavior, like believing in religion(not the only cause). I would suggest you eradicate that fear as soon as possible. We all die, you may as well accept it. And when it happens, nothing from your life is going to matter anymore.

I could tell you what I believe to be, in the significance of death, if you wish.

[quote Anonymous]People who call themselfs smart are dumb so…[/quote]

What would classify as dumb or smart to you?

[quote ameliaearthlin]ying and yang my friend
both equal[/quote]

Hmm yes, the yin yang principles are very good. Though I find they lack the clarity that is found in a world full of complexities to behold. The good and bad will only balance out if you continue to build points for each side. What if your inclined to notice certain aspects of this life more than another? What does this tell you about the nature of reality?

It tells me that this life is subjective. And that our experiences are accumulative and not neccessarily balanced in perfect unison like the yin and yang. It tells me that the true nature of our universe is ultimately beyond our comprehension.

[quote Mr. P]To me this reflects simple personal goals. Do you want to be happy, or know the truth? I choose the truth, though it pains me greatly.[/quote]

I find myself saying the same thing.

If you were a liar, it would also seem that you have to some extent followed a path of selfishness, which does not assist in benefiting society at some level. This would make you an introvert, depreciating the value of society in your eyes. This does not take away from social intelligence, per say. However it does have some negative implications towards your empathetic intelligence. Also your view of the aid of social constructs like technology, would be depreciated, to some extent, because your hindering progress and production, if infinitesimally so. This does say things about your intelligence. Although it’s persistently difficult to really measure ones intelligence. There are so many different forms.

You could yes, though it wouldn’t be so self evident.

You’ve got enough friendly users here. I’m unsubscribing. I’m glad you found help rachae.

It’s true though, about honesty. Anthropological research has shown that for any society to function it needs, at least, two moral laws: no murder, and no lying. If people lie, then there is no point in having social interactions, there is no gain in being part of a society. However, no laws have been implemented fully in any society I know of. And so, we do not know the true potential of honesty. But I do know that by practicing it without this knowledge, you are performing a feat of intuition that many people lack.

No, I did not say honesty is a form of intelligence. I said it signifies that there probably is a certain amount of social intelligence that many people lack. Or, asstated earlier, just the blind luck of being honest through environmental psychological happenstance.

[quote chaoticpixie][quote Quantum_Spirit]I’m here for you. We can be alone together.[/quote]

that sounded a little freakish. lol. but rant al all u want. tell us y exactly u feel alone?family wise, friend, or a man or wat? elaborate or general sense. cause wen i do well i listen to music and dance with my friends. or volunteer. trust me wen u volunteer and go to those place those people make u feel needed and valued at the hospitals or kids places[/quote]

Ha ha, yeah I suppose it did. Sometimes simplicity is good. And in this case, I am here to help rachae. It might feel good, at least unconsciously, for rachae to hear that someone is there for her.

I know what it’s like to not fit in. So I’m here, and offer some needed compassion.

I will try to understand. I’ve felt alone and misunderstood. In fact, I do right now.

I’m here for you. We can be alone together.

Yeah, my first time wasn’t with a gf and I regret that too. But I was happy to have finally done it.

So, you’d be studying in Iran for nuclear physics otherwise? That isn’t neccessarily bad. Just don’t let yourself get sucked into the military. I don’t trust them, and I doubt you should either.

I agree, mostly. You should be with someone you really care for, and perhaps more importantly, someone who cares for you. But there’s no point in holding out till you find the love of your life. It’s only sex, and you’d be missing out on it.

Where are you from, how old are you?