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• I just split up from the girl i love due to me being insecure.
  

  ye, it’s ironic how attraction works most of the time.
  
  when we try too hard to keep the ones we are attracted to, it backfires.
  
  but when we show confidence, we become more attractive…
  
  i have a suggestion. check out sosuave.com read some of the articles… and look for david deangelo. good luck.
  - written 6 months, 1 week ago

• We are just friends, but she tells me she loves me.
  

  I’d say “really? prove it then (smile or laugh)” then you will really know, thats where the fun starts, even if its just being friends of course
  - written 8 months ago

• How can I end my life?
  

  Instead of asking how can I end my life? Maybe the question should be how can I start my life?
  - written 8 months ago

• I am getting sick of people judging me at school because of my race.
  

  yes yes isn’t this world just cruel. Well here’s some advice. And I now know exactly what you are talking about. During highschool, even now, many guys felt that they could “ball us up” and beat us in basketball all the time since my friends and I were asian. But we always beat them. sad. It felt good. But the one thing you need to do is keep your cool and just smile when something like that is said. The reason they do this is fear. They are the ones that are trying to be cool. (regardless of race) Learn to use their negativety into motivation to do better. Like when someone says something stupid like that “you’re asian stop trying to be cool.” i would just play it light and respond by saying something like… “ew, don’t say that, and laugh” and usually they either shut up and laugh with you and realize their demise. Kill them with kindsness also. When i’m faced with people that look down on me, especially in sports, I act with good sportsmanship so they have nothing against you. if they do, it’s their loss and they look stupid and naive in front of everyone else.
  - written 8 months ago

• I am getting sick of people judging me at school because of my race.
  

  frown at you? really? who!? What do they say?
  - written 8 months ago

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