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• Im off now G’bye… posted (6 months, 2 weeks) ago
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• (1 vote) There’s two girls, one I really like and one I wish I’d never met, and they’re friends.
  

  Tricky situation m8, maybe you shud let girl A how u feel about her and Girl B. But try not to get to emotional over girl B in your explaination.
  
  Alternatively, you could wait for Girl A to out the woodwork if she chooses to.
  
  Either way you need to be very careful as young girls have a common pride between to get lads to fall in love with them. Im sure you’ve heard of heartbreak before and it sounds like you’ve probably been thru. Priority number 1 should be to prevent the same thing happening twice. If you can work out the best way to protect your heart, this should attract Girl A even closer towards you. Girls love a challenge, but remember if a challenge is love then, once you give your heart it may be the challenge over.
  
  I think overall you should protect yourself as hard as it may be and make sure you dont get involved with Girl A until you get to her properly. And I mean real properly. Then you never know, maybe it’ll work out? Who knows in love, its the biggest stubling block on the planet, if any1 of us could explain we’d be running the world, not the country.
  
  - written 6 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by hannahx12

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• Life sucks
  

  I see what your saying and understand…
  
  Basically you look around the world today and you dont like what you see, or more to the point how us human beings act in a society. This then has an effect on you, and changes your personality to be more defensive as you know there nasty/evils out there. And from your writing you seem to believe these evils are now a part of you… Even though it is probably just a consequence of the world we live in…
  
  All I’ll say from your writing and descriptions you are not an evil person and this weak voice inside prevents you from becoming that truly evil person.
  
  Just remember sheeps follow and shepards lead. Meaning you dont have to live life the same way you others doing so. This path is lonely and painful but once you come to terms with it you will find yourself. Your likes dislikes etc etc.
  Not only that you will be a leader of yourself and possibly others later on.
  
  Did you know, the hardest person to get to know is yourself, and the reason why is as you described above. I believe if you understand who you are you can go far.
  
  Get to know yourself, and as painful as it may be, I bet you like what you see once you’ve come to terms with it…. that little voice inside.
  - written 5 months, 3 weeks ago

• .:’( It cant be true, :’(
  

  There is really nothing I can say meg accept I sorry to hear your news.
  
  Please learn from this, and realise secrets can slow burn. Your right it is a shame no1 noticed, but it is also a shame she didnt talk.
  
  Dont blame yourself.
  - written 5 months, 3 weeks ago

• My son is 15.
  

  in a nutshell
  - written 6 months, 2 weeks ago

• My son is 15.
  

  [quote cardozastefa]It takes the village to raise a child
  give the boy til 7 and Ill show you the man
  
  He is following your example, he wants to work and earn money for himself and be the head of his household, you’ve show him these skills time and time since he was a child.
  
  Shepards dont push the sheep, be there for him shepard him along the way…
  
  The personal reward for most boys leading into manhood are holding your own household, and knowing what it takes to do it. Your right he is a child he wont have all the answers yet, but do you think hes going to find them in modern day stentifical socialitical society??
  
  He might could still be so mislead without a shepard… Drugs, sleeping round, steriods and fighting, ganstaism, greed, riches, selfishess etc, thats what I see when I look at the picture as a whole…
  
  Whats important is he knows himself, he gains true knowledge…
  
  Sorry for rabbitin haha, you just got me going :p :)))
  
  Are you seeing the other aspects to it now??? Other ways to punish and reward him??[/quote]
  
  scientifical socialitical society?? that was suppose to say, sorry…
  - written 6 months, 2 weeks ago

• My son is 15.
  

  To Kitty, education in life never stops its just where you go to get it…
  
  If I wanted to be a doctor Id go to a hospital, Id learn and go through the processes of what they had to do…
  
  There are different education systems and cultures all over the world, some people need educating in different things before they put their own life in perspective.
  
  Ie In Africa they dont have many schools or more to the point teachers, they have large areas that dont use sign posting, literature etc…the result not many can read and write so that is a major priority…
  
  In most teh western world now academics are as important and life skills, Id be amazed by an African bush man, 1st step of education wanting to learn, 2nd step find the right teacher, 3rd step finding where that teacher is…
  
  Without being a conspriasist, why should the west learn all the academics?? So we have greater techonology, technology to make us destroy? Do you really think we get the latest gadgets?? The army has them well before we do, to keep us under control… If theres corruption thats another thing. And really is it corrupt from the start because the goverment only get the knowledge from the working people themselves to control them..
  
  
  Blow your mind hey girl.
  - written 6 months, 2 weeks ago

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