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• How do you tell a girl that you do not want her hanging out with us friends because of the way she acts. posted (7 months) ago
  For example, just yesterday we took her to lunch, and when we got into the car, she actaully lowered…

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• i have fallen for one of my best guy friends (Typical)
  

  I agree. dont ruin the friendship between ya’ll. I dated one of my best friends this year, and it dint last long just because we didnt communicate as we did when we were just “best friends” so we were like “love u as a friend” and walked away from bf/gf relationship. and we still talk and give a random hug when we see each other, so there are no grudges and we are still friends =] But, if you really wanna date him, just ask him how does he see you, if he sees you like a sister, or the best girl friend ever (friend that is a girl), then dont even bother trying to hook up with him.
  - written 7 months ago

• Click here for a messed up person.
  

  I think you are just insecure about yourself. Sometimes the way we treat others the way we are feeling inside, is called projection. You take out your withheld anger or depression onto others because there is no other way for you to do so, and you’d rather do it to others than to the target that causes you to do this. To every story there is an author and to an author there had to be a start, so kinda try to figure out what causes you to do your actions, and once you notice what it is, youll see yourseld steer away from treating others wrong or what not. =]
  - written 7 months ago

• im still in love with my ex and its got too much for me.
  

  The truth with guys you will never get closure. And i am kinda going through the same thing, just kinda. but in reality only time will tell. I agree with the whole get a new look, hangout with friends more often, buy a plane ticket and take off and just chill, cuz you are still so young and have alot to look forward to. He was just one guy out of the million out there, and any guy would love to have a girl like you on their side. You just gotta sit back and say “Its over, ive had my time to heal, now its my time to shine”
  - written 7 months, 1 week ago

• im too smart for my own good.
  

  You make it sound like a talent, and it could well be one. But, sometimes it can get you into trouble really. If you clearly know that such and such makes people mad, try to work around the words or phrase that u are about to use to make it not sound so bad. I really wouldnt know what else to say, but to just becareful what you say and to WHO you say it to. =]
  - written 7 months, 1 week ago

• I feel like the ones that i should be close to are being distant with me because im too negative or because of my personality.
  

  thankxs! and actually yes! lol. i am currently enrolled in Developmental Psychology. but my actual career is nursing. but i do plan on trying to accomplish psychiatry/counseling for families and adolescents. =]
  - written 7 months, 1 week ago

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