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• What can I do?
  

  the more I think about it and the more I realise that it probably is over and that he just doesn’t have the courage to say so. So now I’m taking the approach that it’s over and either I have to make him spit it out or I just have to sit it out and let it end. either way, got to get on with my life. to be honest, there’s nothing I want more than for it to work out and yes, even with problems that go deep because I want to be the kind of person he can rely on, but if he won’t let me then what else is there to do be done? so I suppose for now best approach is to assume it’s over. thanks for the help anyway!
  - written 7 months, 1 week ago

• Okay, here’s the full story.
  

  hey, it sounds like life is a bit tough on you at the moment. what about friends? you don’t mention any at all. In times of doubt, friends are always the best. Try speaking to them…and if things get really bad I’m sure you have the right to move out of home when you are 16. try and find the right people and surround yourself with them, and just get on with your life. forget about the others if they are not bringing you any support
  - written 7 months, 1 week ago

• What can I do?
  

  ok I am 24 he is 22 we have only been together for a month and a half but met in december 2 days before I left on a 3 month trip to Brazil during which according to him he waited for me for 3 months and talked about me every day. I know quite a bit about his life, it has been tough and he does have genuine problems aside from the ones he mentioned, some problems that go pretty deep. Hope this helps! maybe he is trying to break up with me but I wish he would come out with it and stop avoiding me!
  - written 7 months, 1 week ago

• I’m 17 and my mom is having trouble letting go.
  

  Hey,
  
  In my opinion parents never let go. I’m 24 and my mum still treats me the same even now that I have been away from home for 5 years. I recently moved back and I feel like I’m in your situation all over again. Luckily though, you’re 17 so I think you should probably start easing her in to the fact that you will soon start living your own independent life and that things will be different. This doesn’t mean you guys won’t be friends, or won’t be close anymore and she needs to know that. But she also needs to accept that you will be moving on. Try and make her understand that the experience will be good for you and that she can trust you but that she must learn to give you a bit more independence. Hope this helps! But definitely start sooner rather than later otherwise when you’re my age you’ll still feel like you do today and that’s no fun. :-)
  - written 7 months, 1 week ago

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