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What happened to you beaner? You are a legend for being brave enogh to speak the truth. Many people never have the courage you have. I admire you. Please come back!

Hi beaner43 I noticed that you’ve had some conflict with TD. I’d like to chat with you I have some really bizarre info to share

hi thepp is leaving, could you email saying to look at his post and stuff

Hey beansy boy! How you doin? :)

btw, I would like to know more about all this, so if you could forward me her email if you don’t mind?
lilly-save.help @ hotmail.com

I won’t take sides until I know the whole truth, and I probably won’t take sides anyway.

love
x
Lilly

You’re welcome, I just don’t think we should stick up for just you or jonetta before we know the whole story.
I’m upset about the way fhr21 changed sides so suddenly and said those terrible things about you, when a few minutes earlier he was supporting you.
Hope all this gets better.
x
Lilly

Hey beaner. I’ve had similar experiences, not online, but in person. I know how it feels and hope you are doing well. I would be interested in the email if you wanted to send it. my adress is k128 at Email .com

I agree with ginseng… the truth wil come out. Us Tullahomans gotta stick together! BTW, if you see me around don’t be afraid to say hi!

beaner..you can get through this..you’ve been through a hell of a lot worse! Sticks and stones..stick to your guns if that’s what you believe in..like i said before, the truth will out..

I want to apoligize for the heated remark I left in your shoutbox yester-night. I was pretty heated with the current, and other situation I was dealing with at the time, this will be the third time I have apoligized to someone for saying something in the heat of the moment. Sorry for calling you a bastard.

Hey, no problem. Even though I’m a neutral party, having never met you or Tapdancer, there’s just something not right about the whole situation. She even admits fault in her own profile, and this Gary person tries to turn it around on you and the Fronde. Gary is Tapdancer’s stand-in for when she doesn’t want to talk directly herself. She’s being a coward. I really hope she owns up to the problem and you get the explanation you’ve been waiting to hear. Good luck!

man i don’t know what is going on! fhr has suddenly changed his/her tune completely..what a mess this is all turning out to be!

I will if it turns out ot be relevent. I have a website and know that all computers have an i p address. I am going to ask them if they can check to see if the same or different computers where used for sending certain messages.

I still believe you Beaner…

yeah..well hang on in there..this is definitely not worth losing sleep over..you’re a good guy, i know your intentions were good and like i said before i’m amazed at how quickly you offered a hand of forgiveness and help to TD..that was a really courageous thing to do..not to mention selfless..don’t back down..you’ve done nothing wrong here

exactly..it seems like mudslinging is exactly what ‘he’ is looking for..the things he said about you were completely out of line and far more personal than anything you ever said about TD..like I said, don’t stress..i’m sure this whole ordeal has caused you more than enough stress already..grr I don’t like it when good, well meaning people get mistreated..argh

Dude..whatever you do, don’t stress about this..you did the right thing, that’s blatantly obvious to me and i’m sure it’s the same for any other sane user on here..you really think that’s ‘gary’ posting by the way?!

I’ll be ok. but “understanding” is still a long way off.

Sorry. Could not resist. :)

Hehehe that is crazy good idea :)

That would be funny!!

No problem… It was fun. Surprising end though I can’t believe how sneaky….

I laughed my head off… It was classic++

Thank you, I does clear up a lot of questions I had.

I dont want to get into any of it. All I was saying was regardless of it all, I know that some people have sincerely helped me and have demonstrated compassion, for that I am thankful. I am sorry for your plight and do wish you well.

Hey beaner43.
Im still very shocked about this whole thing.
If you don’t mind, I’d like to see the email explaining why she did what she did. tstcle @ hotmail.com

I have help too my friend.

I have help. All I need. There are two sides to each story. I dont see mention of a wife in your posts anywhere . . . am I really the one that needs help?

You vicious bastard. Come on here and just ravage tapdancer. If she needs help is this the kind she needs? Slandering her? Regardless of truth or lie, you don’t need to demonize her, you lack something in your life that makes you come on here and point out everyone else problems. You should be ashamed. Oh, by the way, ever heard the saying “Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.” I’ll let you “digest” this.

Hey Beaner! How’re you? Wait, stupid question. I read the post about Jonetta…I have no words to that, i just don’t know how to reply. It is sick and wrong. You know, as I read the start of the post, I didn’t believe you at all! Now I can’t say you don’t have evidence, or pain. Will you forward me the email she sent you? hotsox421 @ comcast.net (minus the spaces)
I am sorry, It hurts beyond imagination. That type of thing happened to me (with a different user, obviosly, but he just left. Without a word. I’ve called, emailed, shouted, etc, but nothing…)

That is awesome!! I have lived here off and on my whole life. I live on General St now. I’m 27 so we probably have never met in person but ya never know huh?

You’re welcome…
You live in Tullahoma??? No freaking way!? What part? And how old are you?

Alright, thanks for telling me. I hope we can get all the details sorted out eventually.

I think I do need too know. Let’s talk about this.

This is beyond strange. I was just about to go and see her myself. I don’t know what to think.

Do you know something that might shed some light on this? Please talk to me, because I just had the same thing happen to me.

Hey Beaner, your reply was very touching. In his situation, I just felt hearing from someone who is going through the same thing would have more meaning to him than from someone like me. Thank you for helping him.

Beaner, sorry I didn’t get back to you sooner. I am doing OK. It’s strange, one day I can live as if all is well, and other days, it really beats me emotionally. Thanks for caring. It means so much more than people realize, just to have an understanding ear when I need it. Thank you.

Thanks beaner,, I am going to try to contact them, espicially the state represenative and the govenor. See what they say about it

now I live in Hubei too.
Industry,maybe rice mill, oil,minicar or so.
May you come here to have a research by youyself.

I come from HuBei, which is in the centre of China. you are likely not to hear of my province, for it�s not properious as where you have travalled. Are you a bisinessman who trade with China ?

Beaner, it took me a bit to figure out how to reply without sending a shout to myself, LOL! Thanks for the support. I’m pretty sure SMForbes is just a scammer, but I went to bed a bit upset with myself, and quite frankly, doubting that I did the right thing. I just hate to see the good people that come to this site getting conned by scammers. Thanks again for the support.

Yes, I am here. I see you now. lol. I was waiting for my dinner to finish. I had several notices I was responding to. 2BHelpful was getting some grief from someone who had asked for a handout. I seem to get bunches of notices from people wanting handouts too. How do you handle these notices?

Beaner, you’re here. Do you see me on here. lol. I’m reading posts while I eat my dinner. I’m almost through then I’m washing my dishes and cleaning up. They’re in the den eating on tv trays.

Hello beaner43. Sorry I missed you yesterday. I have a free Saturday so I got up early to do laundry & clean house. I’m going grocery shopping in a few minutes then going to work for a few hours this afternoon. My head is finally clearing up. I guess I’m over the worse of this cold or whatever it was I had. Whatever you do today, have a wonderful Saturday, ok? I hope things are sortofkindof better for you or that you’re feeling not so down. Maybe we can chat later. Jonetta