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• (1 vote) i hear voices in my head telling me to kill myself
  

  Please please, dont pray instead of getting some REAL help!!!!
  
  - written 7 months, 1 week ago – voted for by Miss Jessica Bunny

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• My story is probably not that uncommon and maybe everyone else just knows how to deal with it better than I.
  

  There definitely is meds out there if it is starting to affect your life. Talk to your doctor about it, he probably would have a better idea as to which med would help you. What about talking with a counselor, or joining a mens group that is based around dealing with divorce?
  - written 7 months, 1 week ago

• i hear voices in my head telling me to kill myself
  

  Please please, dont pray instead of getting some REAL help!!!!
  - written 7 months, 1 week ago

• My story is probably not that uncommon and maybe everyone else just knows how to deal with it better than I.
  

  Sounds like a tough situation for you, I feel for you, I have been in a somewhat similar circumstance. I think it is normal for you to still have these feelings for you and your family. You were married for 6 1/2 years!! It can be tough to try and begin a new life all over again. I dont have a cut and dry answer for you. All I know is you need to take things day by day. Focus on being in the moment, feeling the joy of being with your kids and still having a good relationship with your ex. If you are really feeling you would like to reconcile and try again, why not talk to her about it? Have a “first” date again with her, to just relax and be in eachothers company without all the heavy stuff. It sounds like you are a great dad, but remember to take care of your needs in the process if you are having feelings of sadness and such. When I was going through my situation, I also could not leave town, but I did alot of nature hikes and camping trips on my own. Being alone with the trees really helps me to sort out all of my emotions. (Just a suggestion!)
  - written 7 months, 1 week ago

• i hear voices in my head telling me to kill myself
  

  I would NOT listen to those voices, and seek out medical attention. I would advise you to look for a Schizophrenia (Spelling?) society in your area and give them a call. Do you have any friends or family you would feel comfortable talking to about this?
  - written 7 months, 1 week ago

• I have worked in a non-profit battered womens shelter for two years.
  

  Wow! kudos to you B.Nas for your work!
  Well I quit this morning, I didnt even really plan it. I feel a little lost right now, But I am finally free! Thank you for the kind words.
  - written 7 months, 1 week ago

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depression, Apathy, Confidence, divorce, broken heart, sadness