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• I am gay.
  

  It’s not about right or wrong, there is nothing set in stone in this world that declares you should be a certain sexual orientation…. what a lot of people FAIL to UNDERSTAND is that Sexuality is INBUILT it’s not a choice!!!! It’s Primarily affected by genetical make up.. and partly affected by your childhood influences. Gay, straight or bi…whatever you are it’s OK! Never let anyone tell you it’s wrong. That’s just their own belief.
  - written 6 months, 3 weeks ago

• Have you ever needed someone to tell you something honestly positive about yourself?
  

  I think we all do from time to time. No matter how self confident we are, we need reassurance and to hear it from someone else to truly believe it.
  - written 6 months, 3 weeks ago

• I have lost my job, the woman I love has left me and
  

  Life doesn’t promise a bed of roses. I’m a great believer in events happening for a reason..we learn from the experiences life gives to us, some good some bad. Just thank your lucky stars you have somewhere to go. Embrace the change, and be grateful for the experience you’ve had. Good luck, don’t give up.
  - written 6 months, 3 weeks ago

• Currently I have been with someone for over 2 months.
  

  I think your ‘off’ behavior is a your in built defense mechanism coming into play because you are afraid of losing him and don’t want to get hurt.. it’s almost as if you setting yourself up for the worst with him. just relax and enjoy the relationship. Be open and honest, and you won’t go wrong.
  - written 6 months, 3 weeks ago

• how do you ask a guy for a hug?
  

  You don’t ask, you just go for it, if he really likes you back there’s nothing to lose is there? you could start by patting his back slightly then see how he looks to feel with that.
  - written 6 months, 3 weeks ago

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