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• I’m having serious insecurity and jelousy issues.
  

  Yes. I’m at home with the boys all the time and that does limit my conversations with others. As far as the gym. Funny, tomorrow is my first day at getting back into a workout program. Before kids I was fit and lean. I ran 3 miles every other day and did a lot of swimming and yoga. I also ate a great diet. I felt much more physically connected with my husband then. Now, let’s just say not happy with the way I look at all. It definitely makes me feel depressed when I look at myself in the mirror. Unfortunately, I turned to convenience foods and let go of my healthy diet. My husband is not happy with it either. My goal weight is 115. I have about 30 pounds to loose. Ahhhh!
  
  I have a few friends that I talk to but it’s not for very long. My husband also complains that I don’t have very intellectual conversations with him, which makes me feel stupid. I know I’m not but sometimes I do feel that way because I’m talking and playing with children 3 and under all day. Does anyone have advice on how I can improve on this area also?
  
  I asked him about joining them for drinks and he said that he was fine with that as long as I line up a sitter for the boys. I don’t know, I would love to but I also don’t want to make him feel like I’m only doing it to check up on him (which, let’s be honest, is what I would be doing). I think I should be fixing the real problem instead of having to be reassured. I want to feel okay with him going out, even if there is other woman there. I want to feel secure enough with myself to know nothing will happen.
  - written 7 months ago

• I’m having serious insecurity and jelousy issues.
  

  Yes.
  - written 7 months ago

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