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Its her birthday today let say Happy birthday to our friend.

Alright. I guess I sent you an email? I hope it’s you anyway, otherwise I’m going to be having a very awkward conversation with someone else. - T :)

K. I”ll hit you up when I have a few!

LOL. I’m not very mysterious. I did not have an addiction, but I did have quite a challenging past few years. I found that most of it was just PTSD. When you don’t know what it is, however, it can certainly feel like life is out of your control. I found, therefore, that a lot of the mantras one usually finds in 12 step culture can be applied to other parts of your life, much as you suggested. So, while I’m not an alcoholic, I still keep a copy of the big book around - get it?

I’m really trying not to be mysterious, honest. I promised myself I wouldn’t get involved in this site again, so I’m trying to keep my presence on the DL. If you really want, I can point you to my Facebook and then I’ll be mystery-free!

So what do you do when you’re not going to counseling?

“and finally: mwah mwah mwah mwah mwah!”

And are these kisses or your evil laugh?

Oh, I had all sorts of different ones. I’m really glad the SA meetings helped you! I can’t tell you how many people I’ve tried to steer toward 12 step groups and they just didn’t feel it. It’s great to see that it’s working! I didn’t see anybody banging that drum on your post, so it’s also freaking amazing to see someone take interest in their own health. Just awesome.

How are things going for you now, may I ask? Have you been able to start building healthier relationships after finding any of this out? Did you get treatment for the childhood stuff?

I’m sad we can no longer upload avatars, btw. I’d be really interested to see what kind of image you’d pick. Mine are all hidden now, otherwise I’d show you the secret avatar thing.

They’re both approved - the feminist one and the sex addict one, if that’s what you’re referring to.

Don’t even get me started on the state of this website….

I find it sort of ironic that the real Jane Roe came out of that argument vehemently “Pro-life”.

Yes, T has in the first letter of my name. Unfortunately, there aren’t many cool court cases for a man. I could try Plessy vs. Ferguson. Scott vs. Sanford? Maybe Brown vs. The Board of Education? I could be “The Board”.

Jane Roe, has in “vs. Wade” Jane Roe?

Yeah! hes cute… I donno him. I juz liked it and used it :)

thanks! lol that post was fun xD

Well said, thanks for taking the time to respond.

ok, after writing out a page or so, I’ve figured it out myself.

She’s recently gotten away from the catholic guilt, and with a guy she like and trusts and treats her right. And I’m having to face the reality, that for the first time ever, I’ve had to say “enough”.

I think she felt like I was saying something was wrong with her, as I didn’t own up to be totally spent.

She was happy when she realised I wasn’t rejecting her, but I wasn’t. All good now. Hurrah for women like you.

That said, happy to hear your thoughts

got a sex related question for you if your up for it?

About my new girlfriend and her attitude towards it.

Going to cut it real short tomorrow night.

If I can handle that, I might go for shaved next time.

Changing hair is often symbolic, but I think small changes are better for me ATM than drastic ones.

hmm ,that would be the friends function.

If you decide someone repeatedly say stuff worth hearing, you can hit the little person pic and bookmark them. If they think your awesome too, then you get a warm fuzzy feeling and they are on your “friends” list, and you can invite them to your posts.

welcome to our shores…