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• Should I believe him? posted (6 months, 2 weeks) ago
  ?? My boyfriend and i have been together for nearly two years. We have lived with each other for 3…

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• Should I believe him?
  

  I spoke with him more on Saturday night, he said that he had lied to me…. he told me that he had only had 5 drinks and that he wasn’t drunk, he said that on Saturday he checked his bank and he had got out £40 the night he went out… meaning he spend £90 in all. For three drinks at home then two drinks out I think that is a bit excessive….. he said that he was drinking loads after he spoke to me and he didn’t want to tell me because I would feel let down. I don’t like him drinking because he becomes stupid and doesn’t know what he is doing.
  
  He said that he will not lie about that sort of thing again, that it is better out in the open. he said that he deffinately didn’t kiss anyone.
  
  Should I believe him? Should I now let this drop as it is driving me mad!! he went out over two weeks ago now and I keep on probing him for information…. should I stop??
  
  Help, I love him so much, I don’t want to drive him away…
  - written 6 months, 1 week ago

• PLEASE HELP!
  

  Take him to the place you first ever had a date, plan a special evening, out at that place and then plan something special at home…. I take it this is something for your anniversary?
  
  x
  - written 6 months, 1 week ago

• More weird guy behaviour:
  

  It sounds like he really likes you. I would say stay just work colleagues….. for now anyway. Best to keep a bit of distance for a little while so you dont’ develop strong feelings. You don’t want to get hurt.
  x
  - written 6 months, 2 weeks ago

• Should I believe him?
  

  I have just gone for a walk and thought about your question again..
  
  Do I want to believe him? I do want to believe him so I will not be so paranoid but I don’t want to believe him so that ’subcontiously’ I wont get too hurt when something bad does happen!!! Does that make sense!
  
  We really do love each other, and I really think he is the one but even when he goes out for an evening with his friend I find fault in something that has happened (eg. coming home drunk, not ringing me when he has said he would, coming home too late) I try to find evidence that something has gone on. for example, he went to a party a few weeks ago with his mates (it was a work friends party) when he came home at 4am I questioned him, he was drunk when he said he wouldn’t be and we had a massive row lasting for a day! The next opportunity I had I went onto facebook looked at all the profiles of the people that went to their pictures trying to find a picture that would incriminate him!!!
  
  Am I nuts??
  - written 6 months, 2 weeks ago

• Should I believe him?
  

  Yes I really do. But I get really paranoid and worry that I am going to get hurt. I really wish I wasn’t so paranoid!
  
  My x showed me that how ever much someone says to you… I have been faithful, you can trust me, i would never cheat on you, they can be lying.
  
  I am a very truthful and trustworthy person, it really hurts to think what happended with my x could happen again!!!
  - written 6 months, 2 weeks ago

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