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• a year ago i had this thing with this boy
  

  I don’t really understand. So you really like this boy because he understands you but you don’t really talk to him? I would say the best you can do is just be his friend, that way you get to spend time with him, but it’s not going to end up with you getting hurt. But you need to look at the reasons why it didn’t work out last time, has he specifically said that he doesn’t like you in that way? I believe that you can’t even have a fling with someone unless you are attracted to them in some way, so if hes saying thats what he wants, then he must find you attractive. And it sounds like you get on. If i were you, i would go for it because it could end up being really great, or just a bit of fun. However, i might be a little more thick skinned, and if you have the gut instinct that he would end up messing you around then leave it. Maybe his friendship is the most you can ask for at this point, especially if you’ve tried before and it hasn’t worked. Also, if he’s messed you around before, AND your friend then maybe he’s not the kind of guy you even want to associate yourself with. But then again, I don’t know him to make that judgement.
  - written 6 months, 2 weeks ago

• So guys, my mum’s wedding is coming up real soon and she’s pressurising me to lose weight, but i don’t think i need to.
  

  I am four ft 8 ” and up until now i have been perfectly happy with my body. I have had multiple boyfriends and the beach is my favourite hangout. But do you really think cutting all carbs is the right idea? What if i go anorexic? It’s a real worry for me, but apparently not for my mother. As for “szkh”, i don’t know who you are but please stop harassing my profile, i have every right to have you reported.
  - written 6 months, 2 weeks ago

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