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• I feel like I have so little to live for. posted (1 month, 3 weeks) ago
  Okay, that’s lame. I know it is, I really do. My head, unfortunately, is twenty times smarter…

• Dream posted (2 months, 1 week) ago
  He is the truth in my dreams, The logic in my soul, The voice that speaks to me And recalls my role…

• I’d walk through hell for you, let it burn right through my shoes, these soles are useless without you, through hell for you, let the torturing ensue; posted (2 months, 1 week) ago
  walk through hell for you, let it burn right through my shoes, these soles are useless without you,…

• I don’t know what I want from you. posted (2 months, 2 weeks) ago
  I mean, I don’t know what I want to hear. Or if I really am asking for anyone’s advice.…

• Don’t you hate it when you have no idea why you want something to happen? posted (2 months, 2 weeks) ago
  I’m waiting for my stupid ex to wish me a happy birthday. Idk why. I really don’t. I k…

• We Are Young posted (2 months, 3 weeks) ago
  We are young and we are stupid Fun but sad, and we are useless Trashing life on drinks and games We…

• Yay for poems! posted (2 months, 3 weeks) ago
  Especially depressing ones. Those are my speciality LOL. Don’t worry, I intend to write more…

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lucy_h's Top (2) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) How do I get over someone special?
  

  Don’t force yourself until you’re ready. You might hurt another really nice, lovable girl and that could ruin her, if you don’t really love her and kind of (even unintentionally) mess with her.
  
  Time will help.
  
  I’m not a great expert on love, honestly. I’m young, but I take love pretty seriously. In your case, you were lucky to have had her at all. You know that line, better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all?
  
  Well, I disagree with that line lol, but maybe you should try and just think of the good times. But don’t think of the good times too much. I know it hurts, trust me I do, but go out and do other things. NO, do NOT date until you actually WANT to date a girl. Do things like…I don’t know, working out, taking classes, doing some volunteering just because you want to? Focus on anything but girls. Let the wound heal. You may never be the same again. I wasn’t, after I met that guy…you know, your beginning description of this girl reminded me a lot of my situation. Only what tortures me still is that I can never know what he felt, because he never said a word. I would like to imagine it was all in his eyes, he didn’t even need to say anything, but he gave no hint other than the way he looked at me and talked to me. I only met him two times after that and I doubt I’ll ever see him again, which makes it worse.
  
  But as I said. Get involved with your community, or just focus on something that interests you–like science or history or math. And work out. A lot. Exercising physically is good for you, as well as mentally. Don’t focus too much on girls for a while.
  
  Best of luck!
  
  - written 2 weeks, 5 days ago – voted for by beholdarknes

• (1 vote) Jews Hatred
  

  The thing about Jews is, they’re not exactly saying they’re MORE SPECIAL or BETTER than everyone else by saying they’re “chosen”—oh and if they do, then you’re definitely talking to the wrong people—but just “chosen,” I think, in the sense that even if they mess up a lot and screw things over all the time (like they definitely have), God is still giving them chances and is not going to destroy them, like completely wipe out the Jews…as you can tell, they’re still around.
  
  But other people sometimes do get angry that the Jews seem to say that they are “special” or that because they are “chosen” that they are better than everyone else. Jews are humans, just like everyone else. There will be those who are better than some people and there will be those who are average and there will be those who are no better than scumbags.
  
  So…yeah. that’s my take on it.
  
  - written 3 months ago – voted for by Lonelysoul

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• A trip inside Singer’s mind.
  

  Ughh I know how that is :( Unfortunately I don’t have any good advice for you, only to let you know to keep fighting. Listen to encouraging songs, not songs that feed your unhappiness. Try “No Giving Up” by Crossfade (even if you don’t like the sound of it, the lyrics are very good).
  
  Keep fighting. It’s worth it in the end, I think.
  - written 2 weeks, 1 day ago

• How do I get over someone special?
  

  Don’t force yourself until you’re ready. You might hurt another really nice, lovable girl and that could ruin her, if you don’t really love her and kind of (even unintentionally) mess with her.
  
  Time will help.
  
  I’m not a great expert on love, honestly. I’m young, but I take love pretty seriously. In your case, you were lucky to have had her at all. You know that line, better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all?
  
  Well, I disagree with that line lol, but maybe you should try and just think of the good times. But don’t think of the good times too much. I know it hurts, trust me I do, but go out and do other things. NO, do NOT date until you actually WANT to date a girl. Do things like…I don’t know, working out, taking classes, doing some volunteering just because you want to? Focus on anything but girls. Let the wound heal. You may never be the same again. I wasn’t, after I met that guy…you know, your beginning description of this girl reminded me a lot of my situation. Only what tortures me still is that I can never know what he felt, because he never said a word. I would like to imagine it was all in his eyes, he didn’t even need to say anything, but he gave no hint other than the way he looked at me and talked to me. I only met him two times after that and I doubt I’ll ever see him again, which makes it worse.
  
  But as I said. Get involved with your community, or just focus on something that interests you–like science or history or math. And work out. A lot. Exercising physically is good for you, as well as mentally. Don’t focus too much on girls for a while.
  
  Best of luck!
  - written 2 weeks, 5 days ago

• finished with my woman cause she couldn’t help me with my mind
  

  It’s never too late.
  - written 2 weeks, 5 days ago

• My boyfriend doesn’t trust anyone, and he’s going really crazy.
  

  That’s kind of out of your hands. First, try asking him WHY he doesn’t trust anyone. And if he doesn’t answer cause he “doesn’t trust you,” I’d probably get medical help…when it really interferes with people and their relationships then it’s a big problem.
  
  Or, you could let him grow up?
  - written 4 weeks ago

• Coffin
  

  :(
  cheer up, Eddieee!
  By the way, I’m still around, just I haven’t been on lately cause I’m sooo busy…but feel free to give me a shout anytime!
  - written 1 month, 1 week ago

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