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well lifes not the greatest right now sooooo.. yeah

you didnt think i would talk you anymore well im talkin to you cuz i like you. you seem like a really cool guy. wow you have a girl friend im so proud of you and im rootin for this relationship. so things are goin good here so anyways YAY BRYAN !!!!

hey sorry i havent been on in a while what have you been up to

Your real welcome and good luck. Dont be afraid to keep in touch. I would love to hear how your doing. Shout anytime.
You were a pleasure talking to.

Mine is Parks Michaela Parks sorry i have always wanted to have a james bond moment ike that one lol so wat you up to bry you dont mind if i call you that do you

hehehe otay i will take you up on that sometime if you dont mind me asking and its totally ok if you dont want to answer but what is your last name

ha ha thanx bryant

ah i see never seen it before…actually never even heard of it before

wait whats sunshine about???

I would not know I haven’t seen any of those movies. Last movie I saw was Sunshine.

hehehe thats funny you are a man of steel just tell them that umm i watched practical magic mean girls and tinkerbell haha i know right tinkerbell but really its not all that bad

want movie you watch?
People also called me wierd because when ever that big snow storm came through I went for a 3 hour walk with out a coat on. I didnt get sick though. I’m wierd though and I know it

yeah we dont really do much around here either i pretty much just laid around and watched movies all day the typical rainy day life here in missouri lol yeah occasionally the rain is ok like when im crying no one can tell my tears and the rain drops apart

my day is goin alright i guess it rainin here blah i hate the rain its so depressing so how is your day goin bryant

otay cool

yea everythings fine with the “farmer boy” were back together and things are goin good he realized he made a big mistake and fixed it. Thank You Bryant you really helped me out i mean it seriously and just because everything is fine with me and brett i atill want to talk lots i mean i really like talking to you alot your are realy cool and thoes losers at your school who dont wanna be your friends are missin out on a really awesome person sorry i had to tell you that because believe it or not you really are an awesome guy!!!

thanks the only one that has ever told me that was my mother and apparently she likes it or else my name would be fred or somethin lol jk

thanks the only one that has ever told me that was my mother and apparently she likes it or else my name would be fred or somethin lol jk

thanks the only one that has ever told me that was my mother and apparently she likes it or else my name would be fred or somethin lol jk

Michaela as in Ma-Kay-La sorry no one can ever say my name right so yeah

I am so proud of you. Great. Gosh you took a leap of faith in yourself. Dude!
So tell you what, to take this a step further, can you call them in a week, two? and do a follow up. It would let them know you got a lotta heart, right? Keep at it, Im so proud of you. Really,

o my goodness i am so sorry thats totally not even cool if you dont like someone you could at least break it to them a bit easier well i have to go maybe we can talk tomorrow it was nice talking to you again by the way what is your name like your first name

o my goodness i am so sorry thats totally not even cool if you dont like someone you could at least break it to them a bit easier well i have to go maybe we can talk tomorrow it was nice talking to you again by the way what is your name like your first name

o my goodness i am so sorry thats totally not even cool if you dont like someone you could at least break it to them a bit easier well i have to go maybe we can talk tomorrow it was nice talking to you again by the way what is your name like your first name

ah i see the ones that lead you on are the worst i once had a guy just like that ripped my heart stomped on it stabbed it and when he was finished ripping it to shreds he spit on it he was well for a lack of better words a complete dick to me so believe me i know exactly how you feel

well i may not be there but i will be your friend i mean everyone needs a friend to talk to and so they can vent their feelings to and i know we do will not exactly “know” each other but you can trust me and i will listen to you and try to help you the beat can!

cool cool yea he just asked me back out said he was really stupid for givin me up and because well… i love him i said yes so i guess everything is lookin up… so do you have a gf out where you are?

well i live in missouri about 45 minutes away from st.louis actually im at st.lois alot. ummm im not really sure wat to do with him but he told me that he wants me back so i guess things are startin to look up!

Yeah thanks says on your page that you are 16 which means we are around the same age so what state do you live in?

Hey thanks you sound like a pretty cool guy who actually uderstands and i dont think your ranting your just gettin your feelings about the situation out so thank you

I meet lots of people when I take my dogs out. They entertain at campsites, and I meet other dog walkers that always want to know what kind of dogs they are, and how do I make them go through thier paces. I work them, they go backwards and obey hand commands, people are always blown away. Plus I can make them work together. Its awesome and people are just floored watching me command them and the fun tricks they do. I can help teach you as well. I have had dogs all my life.

I love them too, I think its a great idea, either work or volunteer at a vets or shelter.
You would basically come in say hello, get instructions and walk them, not too much talking, it would be a small step and a huge one huh, ironic.
You might help feed or other chores, but it could get you started. Greet the people working there, and go from there, it will be something to look forward to, help with your problem, and give to someone else, the animal that is so lonely and scared. Man happy smiles from dogs is the best. I have heelers, my dog does all kinds of tricks I taught her. She is a working dog, a cattle dog, the smartest dog I ever met, and one of the best friends I have ever known. She rides on my snowmobile, waverunner and anything I get in. Plus maybe you could really meet one you would love to have of your own. Everybody wins with this situation.

kk guess your gone now. Leave a reply when you can. wondering how you feel about the job or volunteer thing. It would sure help you learn to be comfortable.

thats great. What about the other questions.

Oh man, two serious setbacks. My condolences hollow, I too just recently lost my dad. Man my sisters and I never felt anything like that.
Can your mom get you back in. Are you comfortable showing her our shouts and the post? She needs to get you back in so you can continue to work on you, the new you. Money is very tight now for many.

I mean you see that, the lady in the elevator just the two of you, yeah, your uncomfortable, but to think she hates you is rediculous right, She is late for a meeting, thinking about an argument with her husband, what to make for dinner. In a way do you see how grandiose that is. Do you understand. This lady is not all about you, is she? you just think so, your illness is playing you, right,

kk I get it, you feel, was that stupid? Do they think Im a dork? Is my fly down? Things that make you feel embarrassed or scared. That is your illness working on you.
When you feel that happening, ask yourself, what is my fear? Will I die? Are you seeing a therepist? You can ask yourself realistic questions and see that yes its just awkwardness taking a hold on you. That really your just uncomfortable. Your job is getting comfortable with you so others will be, right?

I will ask my sons too, what they did when they felt this way. Dont worry, we will work together and see what we come up with to help you.
Are you smiling at people and saying hello. Being friendly and positive is a sure way to have people notice you. Practice it. Pick your head up and pass people and smile and say hi

Can you volunteer somewhere? Work at a pizza place, you would meet kids your age. A job would be fun. Dont worry about the interview, we will practice and you’ll be ready! You are speaking fine with me. I find you real honest and you want to change. You’ll see it will get easier and easier. Maybe you should tell your mom, your speaking with an adult though. I have two sons of my own.

Do you have a park nearby? A library? you could try and play basketball with the guys. Or meet someone in the library. What about a summer job? That would open an avenue for you.
Yes summer could be long alone. What are your ideas?

That is awesome hollowpoint. Whats your ideas?
Things will change if you do and allow this growing. Life is a constant change, and we must adjust.
Life is about growing as a person. You arn’t done yet, your just starting hon. Give yourself a break, and really do work on what you want. No one can walk in and give it to you. You must create and share you. Don’t keep it all to yourself. Oh and mark me as friend, I want to keep in touch and help you along. Share your ideas, and we can get you going. Hold your head up, look people in the eye in the hallways. Smile and say hi. That’s social and inviting.

I see, many do have this condition. ok so drugs help with panic but not operating smoothly in a social setting. Well then there is your exercise. You wont like it, but you have to step out of the saftey zone. You have to put yourself in a social situation. You got to make yourself do it. Change is never easy, it takes effort and commitment. So try to see this as forcing yourself to be comfortable, making yourself do it. Or you will stay safe, but still alone, and that makes you unhappy. People won’t fall in the front door right? You have to get in a social situation. Children are easy. Read or play. Volunteer time at a nursing center and read the paper to someone. You can get comfortable that way. Children arn’t judgemental, or clicky. Old people have seen it all, and many are lonely and sadly forgotten. This could help many. Can you see yourself in that non threatening situation.

What are your interests? The new school your going to go to, what is available of interest?
What do you excel at?

Why? Do not let your fears be your present and your future. Your young, many have been where you are, and guess what? We were wrong. What is the problem, are you shy?