MiaMags's shoutbox - Help.com

Thank you for questioning whether I understand. I really needed to know that my volunteered time is not appreciated.

I believe I do understand but your all not making it easy for me to help. Even as I was trying to help you, you were still arguing. Your not helping your case by arguing.

Report any thing that you do not like or believe should be deleted. Do not retaliate like you did.

The previous problems you mentioned have been dealt with and do not need bringing up again. I have issued warnings to those users.

Ditz (Mod)

Good Morning.
I warned Paper not to contact Boston and vice versa.
After that warning Boston still contacted Paper (I’m not sure if this was before or after she saw my warning) Which is why you see a new warning in her box.
I’m just keeping those two users apart.
I haven’t seen the links you are talking about. I have asked Boston to report anything that happens from now on so I can deal with it.
If I need to see those links try reporting them.
As far as I understand it - everything should be sorted now.
Ditz (Mod)

ok take care of your self

Give her a hug for me!!! :)

wow neer thought id hear from you again - sorry for what i said before, and i know she so kind and caring its unbelieable, how i wish i knew her sooner, so do you know why shes feels so insecure?

I believe its been dealt with.
I issued a warning to one user and have asked the other not to contact her.
She’s just had a bit of bad luck.
Leaving nasty replies and making bad comments didn’t help her case. She was trying to get banned, which only doubled my work load while trying to figure out what happened.
I’m hoping she is ok. It all got pretty out of hand before I could do anything.
Ditz (Mod & Friend)

What happened to her?

Pertaining to your closed post, I understand your feelings, but calling someone an idiot was a, please little out of line please refrain from doing so again, I know sometimes this site can get frustrating.

Dani Moderator i guess

just about that post you just closed, ill give you 2 bits of advise then i will never talk to you again

1 go and reread their replys and then think about their views and if you still dont understand or disagree with what they are saying, ask them to explain why the said what they said

2 i would recomend that you take up anger management lessons

Hello Mia Mags.

What you need to see is weight as a disposition of self. Not a big deal. I’m not sure how old you are, but the mature guys see that weight is a life choice.

Sometimes it’s made because someone is lazy and prefers not to get in shape, others it’s because they love food, and rarer it’s because their lifestyle doesn’t leave time to exercise. But even then it’s a life choice, because being very overweight is not healthy, same goes for being excessively thin.

This preconception that women need to be thin is cultural and not important if you don’t let yourself be seduced by social pressure.

So what if most men find thin to be more sexually appealing. Most people are stupid, that’s a fact!

I know your probably right. I shouldn’t have made such rash action. But how can you not see the humor in choosing a disorder? I mean it’s one thing to say I’m anorexic or bulimic. It’s totally different to say I want to be anorexic or bulimic. I realize that they’re brain disorders and make you want to be that way. It just sounds very silly. Surely you must see that?

And by laughing I’m showing her how silly it is. Which in turn, helps her see that bulimia is a problem, not a life choice. It’s harsh, and I’m not usually that kind of guy(yes I’m male). But in this case, I saw that would be more useful than hurtful. Particularly considering that I continued to offer good advice, showing that I do care.

I’d be really disappointed if you left. I’ve seen you write some very insightful posts, many of the people on this website need people like that. I would really be sad to have them lose you simply because I offend you.

I was merely trying to get you to see that sometimes people need to have that “critical response”. Sometimes people need to have that extra perspective.

I know you don’t see it that way. You see it as insulting and hurtful. That’s not necessarily so.

Thank you! Thats really sweet and i reallyappreciate it. Hit me up if you need anything too, i will try my best to help!

Ha ha ha thanks.

Pff - I ain’t scared - bring it fcell - say it to my face….he’s all talk, no action.

Ha ha ha

Thank you.

Where?

lol good job…and it happens to the best of us. well i am tired from playin basketball for awhile just gotta keep on going though you know? well have a good weekend i’ll be on and off help.com cause of partying but if you need to get a hold of me myspace is the way to go lol. im hungry! hummas horray!

hi im good what about you?

hi! well just wanted to say hi! so ya hi! :) :D see ya around

lol sry yes you do

mmmm nah lol i just wanted to hear what you had say is all ;-) so any ways you never did answer the question lol do i meet your standards in the looks department…sheesh i should call you vera as in vere away from the subject

ohhh gotchya yeah i should go to college when i get a job i plan on doing community college =) so fyi… and i saw your pictures i must say you do have a nice body =) quite frankily in my book your definetly quite the catch…and i hope i meet your standards in the looks department…and I know I have a brain but it is often a curse because it seems like a lot of society follows too much of hollywood and looks down upon people who see the world for what it is like me…oh so any advice to give me then ms. smarty pants

lol well i hope i showed you that bodybuilders can be smart! cause i think i am. moralistic views? what do you mean by the way? so any ways i am the same way in a sense i can usually tell if a girl is stupid or not by the first week i’ve known her…so far your passing the test lol

those are all very good qualities actually, lol there needs to be more girls like you cause then maybe i would have a gf cause it seems like a lot of the girls i want to get with don’t read or pay attention to anything and don’t want to learn it’s quite annoying. my self i have always wanted a more female led relationship type of thing i am soo dominant to males but i like to let my “sweetie” know that i love her more then a lot of things and i want to please her you know? i mean does that make sense how do you feel about that a better question. oh and a big one you said LOYAL i have been cheated on countless times… it sucks! and no girl supports my dream of being a bodybuilder or wanting too.

i am glad you liked it…i am 20 =( turning 21 though july 11th =D you can buy me a drink. Well what do you look for in a relationship then? or what do you expect may be the better question.

yeah good approach but also you shouldn’t be afraid to meet people or else you don’t get found! ha i just found a flaw in that logic…lol but yes I do know what you mean I can’t find a girl that is mature enough yet it seems like these 18 to 19 year olds are attracted and not the 22 and ups lol

Oh very nice me, I have hundreds of furr jackets…ha only kidding. I am really into lifting weights, I go to hookah bars you know to smoke etc. I enjoy music and I like out doors and love animals mostly ones that are cute and furry =) I am a Muslim and take joy in it. I like to party etc. I am a certified personal trainer.

Relationship life: I got out of an on and off 2.5 year relationship in feb/march. I am the same way looking for “true” love but also letting it find me.

Hey Mia,

I don’t know why anon would write that, perhaps because he doesn’t realize how much of the world depends on America. How are you doing anyways? tell me about you lol out side of politics and everything I would like to get to know you as a person and the wonderful beautiful woman you are.

lol hey i posted a new blog on myspace this time it’s actually up! last time forgot the post new blog button…whooop’s my bad!

Ey yo,

Totally got back a few minutes ago from walking to the corner store I won 7 bux off my powerball ticket ha ha good stuff…so any questions that maybe I could help ya with today?

Hey Just to inform you I accepted your request =) were friends on here now. I also wrote a blog etc and messaged you on myspace have a great day. I am off to go lift =D

lol, its ok, nice and random :) normal SUX

i find your ideas amusing and have pictured the aforementioned disturbed chicken. lulz :P

o, and HAI! :D