2013-11-15 08:30:58 on I was talking to this guy who said he broke up with
That’s pretty sad but hey, maybe they deserve each other. Idk if they will try to come hurt you, but no one should be threatening you like that. Have her info? Call the cops.
2013-11-15 07:33:35 on I know this isnt a serious ‘help’ topic but..i could use some ideas if you have some time!
I like those ideas, i too would go for the more personal. This xmas my hubs asked to make him some traditional food from where he’s from, so i’m gonna give it a try(and try not to fail lol). When gifting in general i try to think of an experience as opposed to items. On a previous anniversary i gifted tickets for a balloon ride(which was amazing), for my hub’s last bday a day pass to a golf course, for my aunt’s last bday a certificate for an hr massage, the list goes on… :)
2013-11-15 07:27:28 on i have never played guitar but,
Browse youtube for easy or beginner guitar songs and you’ll come up with tons of tutorials on how to play what. How much time do you have to ‘practice’ before this? Will it be an electric or acoustic? If it’s acoustic the hardest thing will be building up the callus on your fingers. I recently started myself and got blisters after the 2nd day of practice(15mins a day).
2013-11-15 07:22:36 on I lost my insurance and cannot go to the pain doctor anymore.
Yes you CAN go to the doctor and/or get your meds, you’ll just have pay the total amount. I’m not very familiar with other options(than getting insurance in general), but could there be a place which has a payment plan or some kind of financial help/discounts? Can you pay with your credit card(s) perhaps, have you researched gov. help/programs?
2013-11-14 11:09:33 on my name is amanda and im 21.
:( sorry to hear of your troubles. Since the surgery has your hand healed enough where you can work again(it’s almost a year) even if it’s something other than a bartender? Keep reaching out to gov/city programs, the same goes for your mom.
2013-11-14 09:11:42 on why does she do this?
Seems like she likes to be involved in other’s business, could be she can’t/wants to deal with her own situation so she dives into everyone else’s. Maybe she has issues and wishes someone would have done that for her in the past so now she does it for others(regardless of what you think). Idk, there’s so many reasons which can make a person do something. If you’re not ok with this then tell her, and if you have how did she take it? Hopefully she doesn’t take it the wrong way, but if so be ready to loose that friendship.
2013-11-14 09:04:36 on Is my relationship normal?
Right, i don’t think he feels the same way either. His mood/personality changes are probably caused by something, maybe he’s looking for something new or maybe he’s already found it, who knows! I guess if you care enough about the guy have a chat and tell him exactly how you’re feeling, hopefully you’ll find he cares enough to want to make it work and/or be honest enough to say whatever it is he may prefer to do. If he does want to make it work yet he’s not putting any effort into that, then he was probably pulling your leg. Good luck! His expectation for wanting to take your virginity is hilarious, is he still hung up on his ex by any chance? Seriously, if that’s what he’s all about in some twisted way then he shouldn’t get involved with anyone who isn’t one(obviously).
2013-11-14 08:08:15 on Nobody will help my mother.
Hm, keep looking for programs which she may get help from. I second that, there’s a lot of help out there if you’re able to find it and get approved. If anyone specifically isn’t able or willing to get the correct diagnosis or details, then ask for someone that will. May have to put in some time but it’ll be worth it at the end.
2013-11-14 08:01:16 on My sister in law is destroying my family!
Sad and unfortunately. Your brother for some reason or other chooses to stay with her regardless of her behavior and what kind of person she really is. If all this drama has not gotten through to him yet, i doubt any attack from your family will do the trick(rather he’ll feel like he has to protect her. The time to say something was before they got married). So, what do you do? Keep your distance, avoid the drama. Why? ’cause you guys simply don’t get along, it’s not a secret.
2013-11-13 14:43:15 on Do you believe everyones life is pre-mapped out for them?
[quote mintra]I knew you were going to say that.[/quote]
2013-11-13 13:09:59 on Do you believe everyones life is pre-mapped out for them?
I don’t think so, all tho i’m sure you’ve heard the old ‘everything happens for a reason’ and that God has a plan and he knows everything etc etc… if it’s not predetermined i guess his plan for you is ever-changing(while knowing exactly how it’s going to turn out).
2013-11-13 13:06:09 on Should I marry sooner or later?
If you’re that confident that you’ll end up loving her(and be loved in return lol) i don’t see the point in waiting. To give each other peace of mind you could always sign a prenuptial agreement and remind yourselves that divorce is a valid choice if it comes down to that.
2013-11-13 12:54:23 on Should I marry sooner or later?
What was your reason for waiting after moving/finding a job…did you just want to avoid it all? Sounds like you guys already have it all planned out, i don’t see any reason for waiting(unless of course, either of you aren’t sure you DO want to get married). It won’t hinder nor help your job situation since it’s no one’s business really(other then health insurance perhaps which you pay for accordingly anyway). I do advice to find a job before moving randomly, and if you do plan to move randomly and hope to find a job once you’re there i would suggest to leave her at home, still working until you can find something secure- then you’ll at least have something coming in .
2013-11-13 07:36:17 on Did I cheat?
you’re not the first one, and no this isn’t considered cheating.
2013-11-13 06:52:30 on .
ould be a nice way of letting you down, i don’t think he likes you(’cause you have all this ‘attention’) so…cut your losses and move on. Right, sometimes you don’t have a say in what happens to you(if you count what other’s think/feel about you as things that can ‘happen’ to someone), just like you may or may not want all this attention.