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• Anyone on here have the new sim city game? posted (2 months) ago
  If so… want to join my region? haha. I dont know why But Its not showing up in the list so i…

• So Going through my stamp collection. posted (8 months, 1 week) ago
  See I know very little about stamps. I collected coins when I was younger, and when my baba (grandm…

• I need a google expert lmao. posted (8 months, 4 weeks) ago
  Im trying to look up what these two… I guess you would call them seals are. They are from bel…

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• Would you keep your current job? posted (1 year, 3 months) ago
  or look for another? Heres the scenario i face. Ive been working at this current job for the past…

• Anyone here know about stamps? posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  Particulary canadian stamps, but i am going through my whole collection (that was passed down to me…

• So on word pad what makes it erase what you have written before if you need to change something. posted (1 year, 5 months) ago
  For example… Ive written: I lke cats. I realize i forgot the “I” in like so i go…

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• (1 vote) i find that many websites arent fair to those with mental conditions.
  

  Society has standards that dont fit everyones needs. I have lived on my own since 16. I couldnt get my full lincence, sign any contracts to get a home phone; cable; or internet, or work hours that would have suited my needs for school. It sucks but thats how it is. Its so the MAJORITY of society can function. Same with internet sites. You cant tell whos on the other end of the screen. I could say I have a disorder that makes me angry and its not my fault if someone says something that angers me and i start swearing and flipping out on them… but who knows if thats true or not.
  
  - written 8 months, 1 week ago – voted for by Mariam*

• (1 vote) How do i tell my dad i have a boyfriend?
  

  hmm… well this is a tricky situation…
  
  try this…
  
  talk to your boyfriend, ask him if he would be alright if you stayed there with him for a little while if you tell your dad and he flips out and you feel threatened. if he says no, or it cant work for whatever reason, ask a close friend as well.
  
  now that you have a back up plan, i would suggest talking to your mom, or someone else in the house who has some kind of authority, in case you need help getting out if it grows serious.
  
  also, when talking to these people, make sure you give as much details as possible to what you are going to try to do, and when. so if something does happen (worse case scenerio, he locks you up or something(just based on your description of him) you have someone that knows that there might be a problem)
  
  third, now that your support system is established, think about how you are going to start the conversation with your dad. think about any topics that are unnecessary to mention unless brought up (for example that its been 15 months already)
  
  now, go try talk to your dad when he seems calm, dont interupt something he likes (for exampl a favorite show or something) and try to do it quickly. stalling and wasting time will only irritate people.
  
  also, if you have a cell phone, keep it on you during this time, if you need any kind of help from your support call when he is not around, if he hits you or beats you up, call the police (i know that sounds kind of scary but if you dont, he could seriously hurt you).
  
  if you notice he is starting to become angry, do not try to convince him not to be, let him vent his anger, and try to avoid keeping the conversation going till he calms down. dont ignore him or anything, just try to avoid the more… anger inducing topics.
  
  finally, if you feel threatened AT ANY TIME leave. if he does kick you out and wont let you back in, if your in canada anyways call social services. if your sixteen you can go on a program developed to help kids like you. its called the 16 and 17 program and will help you financially, and will help you find your own place to stay for a while.
  
  also try to keep any objects you may need close to you. your wallet for example and try to have some cash on you.
  
  some of these steps may not apply to you, and may be extreme for the circumstances, but as i am not there to witness anything, the more information you know the better off you are.
  
  edit this list to your specific needs.
  
  hope i helped :)
  
  - written 3 years, 11 months ago – voted for by wtfuhhkrystal!?

• (1 vote) how do i tell my parents?
  

  well, for this problem, follow these steps.
  
  first off ask them for a serious talk. make sure you tell them that it is importiant, so they do not brush it off and you do not catch them off guard.
  
  you dont fart around with stupid things and dont waste their time, its only going to make it more awkward.
  
  expect them to be a little shocked and possibly angry (depending on your parents)
  
  maintain eye contact, and dont try to hide your emotions.
  
  explain why this happened (but dont go into graphic details)
  
  always have a back up plan! have somewhere to go in case *something* goes wrong. some parents get a little… “irritated” at news like this and the situation can get extremely uncomfortable.
  
  tell the truth, if they ask you questions answer them. this way you show them your being more responsible then you have been.
  
  after all this it WILL be awkward for a while, but if you follow these steps you will have a better chance at having a better outcome
  
  - written 3 years, 11 months ago – voted for by ☞T☜

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• Hey… I had a really rough day… anyone feel like just chatting on here?
  

  Thanks everyone for replying. I really appreciate it.
  
  A friend called me and asked if I could help her move. (IRONY).
  
  Took my mind off of things for a bit. which is good because quite frankly… I wasn’t thinking to positively…
  
  the friend whos moving out of their friends place… lol… offered me a place to stay. So… At least I have that option Seeing as its my only real option… I guess imma take it.
  
  ahhhh… honestly though, I cant see the point anymore though. All people do is work to pay bills to pay some guy who already has enough money so he can pay off his brand new car. I don’t see the point in struggling to live an average life.
  
  Sigh. But what do I know, I don’t even know where ill be in a week. lol.
  
  
  
  [quote zbrow1]I to know the feeling of waking up and hating where i live…… sadly, i’m a minor, and cannot yet move out of the ghetto known as metro-detroit…… You really just have to hang in there. Look for places to live where you’re at now, but if nothing comes up, heck, live in your car for a bit![/quote]
  
  Thanks, I hope you get a better start at life then I have once you do get out on your own!
  
  
  
  [quote ~Empress~ Hazelnut]I feel like chatting, and sleeping ar the same time. I had a great day but my body is kissing me… I went to boot camp and my trainer kicked my *** it was tough…
  
  Now all i can beg for is a good massage!![/quote]
  
  Haha well thanks for taking the time to send me a message on here, it is appreciated. :)
  - written 1 month, 1 week ago

• I want my Facebook closed permently i am tired of the
  

  Uhm… What?
  - written 7 months, 1 week ago

• Will I go to Hell if I change my religion from Christian to Islam?
  

  [quote rob.allen3]I think the answer to the original question is YES you are in great danger of going to Hell. If you convert from Christianity to Islam you are saying in your heart that you do not care for the sacrifice Our Lord Jesus Christ made for you.
  It is so obvious to anybody that is honest, Islam reveals it’s Satanic origin in it’s hatred of all that is holy, and it’s love for all that is evil.
  How can anyone give up Jesus for the evil teachings of that pedophile rapist murderer
  Mohammed[/quote]
  
  Ignorent. Please explain how islam is “Evil” and dont go ranting about terrorists. Anyone can be extreme in anything they do. Christians can be too. Its Well documented.
  
  I am neither religion, but being ignorent about another religion is no reason to spread such hatred because you watch the boob tube and someone on there says a terrorist came from a mainly islamic country.
  - written 7 months, 2 weeks ago

• i find that many websites arent fair to those with mental conditions.
  

  [quote Anonymous][quote Cady8907]Society has standards that dont fit everyones needs. I have lived on my own since 16. I couldnt get my full lincence, sign any contracts to get a home phone; cable; or internet, or work hours that would have suited my needs for school. It sucks but thats how it is. Its so the MAJORITY of society can function. Same with internet sites. You cant tell whos on the other end of the screen. I could say I have a disorder that makes me angry and its not my fault if someone says something that angers me and i start swearing and flipping out on them… but who knows if thats true or not.[/quote]
  
  yes, you can lie about having, but for those whom have the conditions, it just makes it worse.[/quote]
  
  Yes but if for example I did have that condition that would cause me anger for no reason, and you let me get away with swearing all the time, then you would HAVE to let anyone else who claimed to have that disorder to as well. It would cause many more problems then it would solve.
  
  Its sad that you feel “targeted” and if there was something that could be done Im sure it would be. BUT there isnt anything that can be done that wouldnt hinder everyone elses ability to keep this site/other sites safe and secure for everyone who uses it. You have to take the responsibility to TRY to controll any impulses you may have due to your mental condition.
  
  
  
  [quote Da⌐11]With every disability there is the responsibility to do one’s best to mitigate their systems before demanding others change in order to accommodate the disability.
  
  For example a disabled person who cannot walk; cannot demand others carry him around, he is expected to learn to use a wheelchair and then it would be valid for him to demand wheelchair access.
  
  So in that light if posting anonymously causes your other personality to help yourself and if that is a violation of the rules on this board; than your first obligation would be to stop posting anonymously so that the situation does not arise.[/quote]
  
  Exactly. Im sure there are ways that YOU can abide by the rules without breaking them. There are MANY conditions out there, to make rules that would fit everyones needs would = no rules.
  - written 8 months, 1 week ago

• So Going through my stamp collection.
  

  Lmao. Unfortunitially theres no place like that around here :( and to take it to the nearest place that would have a place that could help me out wouldnt be worth it (Unless it was a very valuable stamp lmao)
  
  But thanks for the suggestion! Appreciate it. Any other ideas/ info?
  - written 8 months, 1 week ago

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