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• Today is my birthday! posted (2 years, 8 months) ago
  !! Being older never feels any different. But oh …

• I’m looking to sell some stuff anD I’m noy quite sure how to go about this. posted (2 years, 9 months) ago
  looking to sell some stuff anD IR…

• bible verse help posted (2 years, 10 months) ago
  ive heard that somewhere in the bible it talks about helping people and when to stop. im not sure wh…

• i cant believe posted (2 years, 11 months) ago
  no one has replied to my last post. not one person. its nice to see that people here are so eager t…

• he might be sent to Iraq posted (2 years, 11 months) ago
  ……so my husband is currently gone for army basic training. he has only been gone about 2…

• he left monday posted (3 years) ago
  so my husband left for the army, basic training and AIT on monday. in all he will be gone about 4 or…

• this site is about giving honest advice posted (3 years) ago
  so im just wondering, for those of you who have seen my replies i give and stuff, do i give good adv…

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JDC's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (2 votes) suicide is just plain stupid!
  

  well obviously i dont think anyone should commit suicide. but what you said was very inconsiderate. some people have problems and dont know how to deal with them. while suicide is never the answer, you should be more sympathetic to those who feel that way
  
  - written 2 years, 10 months ago – voted for by Pink Freud, LJ123

• (2 votes) She wants to get married to escape from parents
  

  DO NOT MARRY HER! getting away from parents is not a reason to marry. you should marry someone if and only if, you love them and want to spend the rest of your lives together. any other reason is not reason enough and will only result in unhappiness down the road and future divorce
  
  - written 3 years, 1 month ago – voted for by Best of Luck!, STEEL

• (1 vote) helppppppp please
  

  well if you were younger i would say to obey your parents and do what they think is best. but you are 22. at some point they have to loosen up and let you go. you and your sister are both adults and deserve to be treated like so. either you can tell your parents that youre old enough to do what you want, or you can just stay home and do everything they tell you. if you choose the latter then it looks like your under their control until you move out
  
  - written 2 years, 8 months ago – voted for by Dr. Jackson

• (1 vote) what should i do?
  

  [quote lolita]so if he asks to hang out i should just say i’m busy or something? i just hope that that doesn’t start the whole hard to get game…and then he all of a sudden gets interested[/quote]
  
  dont give him excuses. that will only make you seem interested but unavailable. if he asks to hang out simply say no. youre not interested or you dont want to. if he has anything to say about it, simply tell him “sorry but im just not interested in you that way.” that will really get him. and if he does start liking you, you cant let it get to you. remember all he wants is to “screw around.”
  
  - written 2 years, 8 months ago – voted for by NotYouButMyself

• (1 vote) I want to help but I can’t.
  

  well all you can do is talk to him and let him know how important it is that he pursues his own dreams. if his family is so bent on making him feel guilty and wanting him to stick around, maybe hes never had someone who had his best interest at heart. he needs to know that someone understands and cares about his life and his dreams. hes probably never had that
  
  - written 2 years, 8 months ago – voted for by Lirou

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• what is the current idea of sin in your mind or society……of
  

  [quote love4tacobell][quote JDC][quote love4tacobell][quote JDC]i have a question for you izz….
  im not wanting to start an argument but simply im trying to understand.
  you say there is no concrete proof or evidence that God exists. ive heard lots of people say that and i dont understand how you can say that. just look at the world. i mean is that not evidence enough? look at our human bodies, how advance they are. out of all the technology and crap that people have made, we, people are a great creation. not only are our bodies complex, but we are smart, we have imaginations, and we can feel emotions. i just dont understand how the world we live in isnt evidence enough[/quote]
  
  how exactly does that prove anything? that is not concrete evidence, there is no absolutely no factual or logical rigor used in your deduction. its like saying, ‘this coffee tastes sooo freaking good….its exquisite taste is proof that God made it and not the barista behind the counter.’[/quote]
  
  i dont understand how it doesnt prove everything. how else would you explain how the world got here? how we got here? unless you think the planet, trees, animals, and people just sprang into being. and if thats what you believe, i think the possibility that it was created by God would even seem far more likely[/quote]
  
  
  you are repeating yourself. like I said, there is no logic used in your reasoning. I’m not trying to belittle you when I say this, but try taking a physics or a chemistry class, maybe then you could come up with a more logically rigorous proof of God. You don’t have very much proof to go on right now.[/quote]
  
  im not trying to start an argument. im just looking to see your reasoning. ive taken physics and chemistry classes, but that does nothing as far as proof of God. that is science. science and and God are two separate things. physics, chemistry, and other such subjects still do not explain how the earth just popped into being. or how people came to be. how were we created? by God. all im saying is that i think the fact that we exist and live in a beautiful world should be proof enough. im not stupid and i know plenty about logic and reasoning. but to tell me that the whole universe and our existence is not alot of proof to go on makes no sense on your part.
  - written 2 years, 8 months ago

• Give me some superstitions, legit ones!
  

  well thats cool. ive currently got someone living with me that im wanting to get rid of, maybe i should try it
  - written 2 years, 8 months ago

• Give me some superstitions, legit ones!
  

  [quote Snowlady][quote JDC][quote Snowlady][quote JDC]spilling salt is bad luck. after doing so you have to immediately throw some back over your left shoulder.
  if you see a penny laying face up, pick it up and its good luck. but if you leave it there, youll have bad luck.
  seeing a single crow is bad luck.
  four leaf clovers are good luck.
  an apple a day keeps the doctor away.[/quote]
  
  Speaking of salt, when we have guests staying for a long time, we pour some salt into their shoes. Then, they will leave your house soon. (Of course, it’s just a superstition… I guess nobody does that nowadays. I hope.)[/quote]
  
  have you ever tried it? and if so, did they leave? lol[/quote]
  
  Well, not really. But there are still many people living in their villages doing so. It is said your guests will leave ASAP. I guess it’s not a good thing to do. your guests will finally find out about it.[/quote]
  
  lol. i guess its good if you want them to leave though. im just curious if youve heard of a case where this actually worked?
  - written 2 years, 8 months ago

• Im the happiest ive been in ages, but my friends arent happy for me :(
  

  well your friends should always want you to be happy, and when you are they should be happy for you. but your friends also want to take care of you. if this guy is bad news, they dont want to see you get hurt. if he’s a good guy, then tell them that. i know he left you once for his ex, but that doesnt make him a terrible person and everyone makes mistakes. just explain to your friends how important this is to you. but also try to find out why they hate him so mych, they may have good reason
  - written 2 years, 8 months ago

• I think I have anger management and self control issues.
  

  if you are always looking for the bad, thats all you will ever see. try to look for the good things. mr. help gave you very good advice. also, whenever you find yourself focusing on something bad, try to turn into something good.
  - written 2 years, 8 months ago

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