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why are people still commenting on this???
its dumb.
go find a better post to “help”

[quote thepursuitofknowledg]Just ride it out anon. I’m sure eventually you will find a friend you really connect with. If you try to force a friend down your own throat it will end up being someone you don’t like.[/quote]

exactly. besides a true, good friend is rare. you cannot just pick one up anywhere. stick with the friends youve got and eventually youll find someone you click with. and dont envy the others, must likely the people you see with “best friends” are fake and untrue anyway.

seek professional help NOW!
do u want to become an in breeder and have deformed children who come to you asking “mommy how did you and daddy meet?”
“oh honey, we’re brother and sister.”
then they thinks its ok so your inbred children get married and have kids even worse off then they were.
how could you like your brother???
therapy is what you need.

dont tell him thats too rash. give it a while and you will get over it. and ull be glad you never said anything. your first love will be difficult to get over but you will. you just have to be strong and focus on what u got now

[quote classicrock1818]then stay with your boyfriend. what you are doing is the way to do it. you have to meet someone else to move on from a relationship, and itll always be hard to move on after you dated someone for so long. so just keep strong and keep doing what your doing :)[/quote]

exactly. yall were together for a long time and he was probably your first love. thatll take time to get over. hes with someone else and so are you. just stay strong and be happy with ur bf and in time you will get over it

i kinda have….or well had….that prob too. you need to figure out why you dislike people and go from there. try not to be so quick to judge/hate. just give people a chance and get to know them. if ur gonna not like someone make sure you have a good reason. u just got to get out there and get to know people

well it depends. if the things that keep plaguing you are recent events then its gonna take some time to get over it. i did some awful things and went through the lowest point of my life about a month ago. thats when it ended and everything has been just perfect since then. but every now and then, earlier today actually, it comes to mind. at school today i started to think about my whole previous situation, about the things i did, what happened as a result, and just how awfully depressed i was feeling. i found myself just feeling regrets, shame, and just being mad at myself for what i did. but today was the first time id thought about in a while. you can never completely forget things. but eventually, some things take longer than others, youll get over it. you might just have a bad habit of dwelling on past mistakes/issues. or you could be feeling sad, regretful, ect. about things. if so, make peace with your past and move forward. try to start focussing on the good and dont let your past bring you down. everyone has bad memories but you cant let them keep you from living.

[quote enigma5608]
Like music life is only enjoyed when played.

but there is nothing so sad as a beautiful song cut so short.[/quote]

wow! not to break the mood here or anything, but thats beautiful.

really???!
being a little paranoid/hypochondriac is whatever. but at least have a decent reason.
cold sores??? honestly??
if i was you id be more scared about getting cancer, or dying in a car crash, or spontaneously combusting!!

[quote kay.garrett1]why? im not afraid of death. if there is something after life then that would be interesting. if theres not i wouldnt know anyways.[/quote]

its not being afraid of death……its just the fact that suicide is not the answer. whether you think so or not, that would hurt alot of people. besides you were put on this earth for a purpose. when we die, we have forever, eternity, to spend in wherever we end up, but we only get a short time here on earth. i think you should pray. really, and ill be praying for you. trust me,, everyone feels like this at one time or another. but you gotta stay strong. god will direct you if you let him, and im sure hes not ready for you to leave this earth just yet.

[quote kay.garrett1]well the only thing i ever do is music. thats what i wanna do with my life. but lately if been thinking whats the point. and life just bores me now. i always think that killing myself would be the only excitment worth doing.[/quote]

killing yourself would not be exciting. youd die. you certainly wouldnt get any enjoyment out of it. besides you cant look at life that way. yeah youre bored right now, we all go through that stage. youre only 13 though kid, chill out and give life time. trust me, in a few years thingsll change. just dont even consider suicide. things might be boring now, but your whole life is ahead of you, think of all there is to come and make the most of what you do have now.

same in my town. i mean i dont do drugs but i live in basically one of the smallest towns there are. i dont know exactly what to tell you…..i know what its like. there is absolutely nothing to do in my town and sometimes i feel like im gonna go crazy!!!
really. and i cant stand to be at home but then when i leave i have nowhere to go!
you just gotta find other ways to occupy your time. find a new hobby, or make new friends, or something. i know its hard. but in small towns theres only so much you can do, just dont develop bad habits for lack of anything else to do. youll regret it later.

[quote enigma5608]Watch Dazed and confused.

Granted it is a pot smoker movie but there are good lines in there for young kids…

one of them was along the line of “i did the best i could while i was stuck in this place.”

It is only a few more years and you will be done and move on to the next phase of your life. And when you are 50 you will laugh at how scared your grand kids are of school at their age.[/quote]

that is a great movie

well keep trying with them definitely.
maybe they dont understand how serious your problems are.
but as far as you home, youre just gonna have to deal.
smoking and drinking-quit if you can. that doesnt make things any better.
then find some good friends for support.
give church a try. i dont know how feel about religious views, but God is ALWAYS gonna help you. if you go to him youd be surprised how much better things would get.

well trust me i know you dont want to do this…..but you need to talk to your parents.
tell them how you feel, what youre going through, and help them to see that you need them. they might surprise you. i know parents can be extremely stressful, but they can also be the best ones to go to when you need help. so try that first and then go from there.