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• my bf has just been taken to hospital for the 4th /
  

  hey!!!
  I read the full post and msut say that you are a very strong and brave women…
  Whatever you are doing for your guy is commendable..
  I can understand what you feel for him and why you going through all this…
  
  Take him to some habilitation centre, be his best friend. I feel he is just so insecure and disgusted with life. May be that’s bcz of bad childhood and other issues that you mentioned. He needs to love life first./….
  
  He has lost all hopes and has lost interest in living, be his friend… make him love life… assure him that there are good people existing and there is so much to look forward to in life.. boost his confidence, tell him how capable he is to work all this out…
  
  When you have coped with so much for so long, extend your hand yet again and infuse life in you bf..
  
  I knw its very hard, but when you could so bravely overcome all this…. you can still give it another shot…
  
  I dunno, if I am right….. But just give a try.
  - written 5 months, 2 weeks ago

• Hi,
  

  Thanks J N for that wonderful piece of advice…
  
  I think I was preparing myself for this for quite sometime now…
  
  I know I am not going to go back to him… neither am I trying to tk revenge on him..
  
  I am just moving on, concentrating more on myself, my job and family. I need to fall in love with myself at the first place.. In past few years I have neglected myself and few very closed ppl who really care for me tremendously.. I need to work on all these and make my people happy and proud.
  
  I came to this post bcz I needed to take out whatever was there inside me for my partner…
  
  But I knw that letting him go would be for the best for both of us.
  
  Thank you soo much again… :)
  - written 5 months, 2 weeks ago

• Hi,
  

  No we are not.. infact we are best of friends.. If he had been only friends, it wud have been greatt!!! But somehow in this relationship, he is not reciprocating in the normal fashion… very strange…
  
  I had a complete different picture of his, but he certainly proved to be a coward. The way he is reacting, its just so mean and wierd.
  
  I can never bring myself to the fact that he just don’t care…
  
  He use to tell me all the time that he will never get a better partner… and also knowing his family I have seen that I overly do things for him.. But I used to do, bc i knew he liked that… So just to keep him happy always I went on doing anything for him. I pampered him completely…. Gosh!! have not done soo much even for my family..
  
  & today he comes and tells me that I mean nutin to him :(
  - written 5 months, 2 weeks ago

• Hi,
  

  hmm… Thanks t-spo..
  This is what I am trying to do.. Just that its very hard :(
  I still love him, But when I think of how he has treated me, I feel very bad..
  
  Nehow, I knw I’ll move on….. Just working on those lines.
  - written 5 months, 2 weeks ago

• i need help my brother wants to get married to this
  

  Try to know this girl… may be the girl is obviously proves to be the best partner to your bro.. and If that’s the case, help your brother in convincing your parents.
  See, parents need to also understand their child’s decision, atleast give it a little respect…..
  Blindly you shud nt be just thinking of kicking that girl out of your bro’s life…
  
  try to think maturely…. talk to your parents , your bro and also to that girl…
  - written 5 months, 2 weeks ago

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