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• 18 things guys want to hear from their girlfriends posted (1 year, 5 months) ago
  18. You’re so strong. 17. I am the luckiest girl in the world. 16. Want to come up for a drink? …

• The Divine Comedy by Dante posted (2 years) ago
  Crazy.Firework and I have decided to read and discuss The Divine Comedy by Dante on a post here. An…

• What are some of your favorite quotes? posted (2 years, 2 months) ago
  I love finding new and interesting quotes and I was wondering what some of your favorites are. Her…

• What is something that you have always wanted to hear someone say to you? posted (2 years, 2 months) ago
  It could be: - something that you heard one time and always wanted to hear again - something that …

• We are going to play a really fun game ~ Part 3! posted (2 years, 2 months) ago
  Ok, I say a word. Then you change one letter to make another word. You may also add and subtract on…

• Gifts From The Heart posted (2 years, 2 months) ago
  By - Michael Josephson According to legend, a young man while roaming the desert came across…

• How many of you remember these songs/dances? posted (2 years, 3 months) ago
  [youtube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dMH0bHeiRNg] [poll: I’ve heard and danced (or know…

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• (3 votes) Are a lot of Americans stupid?
  

  Definition of stupid:
  1 - Slow to learn or understand; obtuse.
  2 - Tending to make poor decisions or careless mistakes.
  3 - Marked by a lack of intelligence or care; foolish or careless: a stupid mistake.
  4 - Pointless; worthless: a stupid job.
  
  US?
  1 - sure, sometimes, could be said of ANY group of people in ANY country in the world
  2 - ” ”
  3 - ” ”
  4 - ” ”
  
  Countries are made up of many people, not just stupid ones and not just smart ones. In the same country where you find the smartest person you could find hundreds of incredibly stupid people. There are a lot of ignorant people EVERYWHERE and a lot of VERY intellegent people there too ~ even in the small little world of help.com ~ don’t look at just one side of the story. And there are differnet levels of intelligence as well, don’t forget that. Don’t put everyone in a box and don’t stereotype people! Just because someone doesn’t know the answers to all those questions doesn’t mean that they are not incredibly talented or amazing in another way or in another area of life.
  
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago – voted for by Mï†z¥-superMODel, ____________________, *kten*

• (2 votes) tell me how you think.
  

  Reading what you wrote was like reading exactly what has been going through my own mind lately.
  
  A couple of things, first off. Denial is not the answer. And second, even if you’re not sure where to start, DO start SOMEWHERE.
  
  Denial doesn’t help, not in the long run, and it is what gets you to where you are now. I know how hard it is sometimes, and even now I’m struggling not to slide even further in myself. But I know, as I’m sure you do too, that it really won’t help. A lot of people think I’m weird for doing this, but sometimes when I’m stuck at something that I know I need to change (but just can’t seem to be able to), I’ll start an internal conversation with myself, asking myself why I am doing what I am, how I think it will help, etc. And most of the time it really does help me, and even if my thoughts about something are wrong, it usually clears my thoughts enough to where I feel more in control and have a general idea of what I want/need to do.
  
  I know how hard it is to be so lost, to just have no idea what to do, and to finally just decide to do nothing. But there is really no one and nothing in life that can really tell you what you should deal with first, or what you should do. Only you can decide that. Even if you’re not sure where to start, or what problem you should work on first, do start somewhere. Once you start somewhere and deal with one thing, after a little while other things start to fall into place and sometimes it does seem like life itself is telling you what you should do. Also, motivation comes from doing, not thinking, so if you’re feeling unmotivated, just do something, anything, and you should start to feel better.
  
  It sounds like your problem with your boyfriend could be from low self-esteem. I could be wrong, of course. But if you want to check and see if it is, you could try taking this test.
  
  The next time your boyfriend says something like that, instead of thinking about how wrong he is, try thinking about why he would say it. Part of it could just be because he loves you, of course. But even then, I am willing to be that there is some truth to what he says. Maybe it’s not always true, or it doesn’t apply to everyone you know, etc. but I am sure that if you really think about it, you’ll be able to think of at least one situation where what he said was true.
  
  And I have a question. Do you really want him to agree with what you say, or do you want him to be able to show you that what he said is really true?
  
  I don’t know if anything I said helped at all. But if you want to talk, know that I’m here.
  
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago – voted for by Raina, pointdot

• (2 votes) what is beauty?
  

  Some quotes I found ^_^
  
  “Everything has its beauty, but not everyone sees it”
  
  “No object is so beautiful that, under certain conditions, it will not look ugly.”
  
  “People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within. So beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart”
  
  “Beauty is simply reality seen with the eyes of love”
  
  Though we travel the world over to find the beautiful, we must carry it with us or we find it not. ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
  
  “I’ve never seen a smiling face that was not beautiful.”
  
  - written 2 years ago – voted for by Queen of Lost Vampyr, Hope, Raina

• (1 vote) What is a Cosmological Argument?
  

  The Cosmological Argument attempts to prove that God exists by showing that there cannot be an infinite number of regressions of causes to things that exist. It states that there must be a final uncaused-cause of all things. This uncaused-cause is asserted to be God.
  
  The Cosmological Argument takes several forms, but is basically represented below.
  1. Things exist.
  2. It is possible for those things to not exist.
  3. Whatever has the possibility of non existence, yet exists, has been caused to exist.
  - Something cannot bring itself into existence, since it must exist to bring itself into existence, which is illogical.
  4. There cannot be an infinite number of causes to bring something into existence.
  - An infinite regression of causes ultimately has no initial cause, which means there is no cause of existence.
  - Since the universe exists, it must have a cause.
  5. Therefore, there must be an uncaused cause of all things.
  6. The uncaused cause must be God.
  
  Thomas Aquinas (1224-1274) had a version of the Cosmological Argument called the Argument from Motion. He stated that things in motion could not have brought themselves into motion, but must be caused to move. There cannot be an infinite regression of movers. Therefore, there must be an Unmoved Mover. This Unmoved Mover is God.
  
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago – voted for by chunkymove

• (1 vote) I feel hopeless.
  

  http://www.affirmware.com.au/Sculptor-Private/the_formula.html
  
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago – voted for by christinasworld

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• Go to flickr and see all the beautiful pictures of needles California .
  

  do you have a link?
  - written 9 months, 2 weeks ago

• Look past what you see everyday.
  

  :)
  Thank you.
  - written 9 months, 2 weeks ago

• You don’t have to live a meaningful life.
  

  People find & give meaning to things & people without really thinking about it, it’s in our nature. Some of the people here, it sounds like they find their OWN meaning, rather than just accepting without question the meaning that others give them. And that’s not taking meaning away, it’s just finding your own meaning. I think that when you say you have no meaning or your life has no meaning, you are going against your nature.
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

• You don’t have to live a meaningful life.
  

  No. You don’t have to live a meaningful life, but isn’t a life without meaning essentially a life not worth living?
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

• Happy 29th Birthday Cailean!
  

  Happy birthday!! :D I hope it’s been great!
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

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