Ok, now I am going to hurt you!! You locked it so even though I have you as a fav. I can’t sent IT to you. Here I am trying to do something nice, but I can’t because you are a man of no consequence. :P
that is cool… ill keep your secret..
if there is anything that you need to talk about.. you have my email..
as for my daughter.. she is due november 4th.. i had a dream she was having a boy actually.. and that she named it austin.. but i have had no word on what she is actually having as of yet.. not sure if she herself knows yet or not.. but as soon as i find out.. ill let you know..
and i think it was the 12 step thing that is so helpful. i don’t think you need an addiction for it to be useful, did you go through one?
i’m currently seeing a counselor, issues like these don’t resolve over night, but i”m doing much better. thanks for asking :) As far as relationships are concerned…idk it’s a little complicated at the moment lol.
PS now you have to tell me something about yourself, stop tryin’ to be so mysterious :-p
while i don’t think the post you quoted was profound, i agree with what you said about redefining roles. thx for your input :)
So, i went to a few sex addict anon meetings and i realized that i did have an emotional problem related to sex, but not quite addiction. however, the meetings were really helpful.
I’m bummed that i can’t put up an avatar too :-/ what was yours?
Yep I was 18 when I arrived here, 2 years ago now can’t believe its been so long! I’ll take a look at that post asap, thank you for inviting me to it :)
Hey, thank you for the shout that’s probably one of the most helpful ones I’ve got so far. The problem with me being sent to the doctors and various school counselors is that they always say the same thing: “We can tell there’s something that needs fixing but until you tell us exactly what’s going on in your head, we can’t do anything.”
My mum will say to them that I have trouble getting to school or even out of the house because of this routine and that I’m constantly anxious, tired, restless etc. But ultimately they can’t do anything until I actually say what is wrong and ask for help. Which is where the problem lies, because however much I psyche myself up to just walk in there and spill my heart out, the minute I’m sitting in front of a disinterested doctor/counselor who has a busy schedule and keeps glancing at the clock - I just freeze up and feel like I don’t want to waste their time. So usually I just smile, nod and lie my way out of there. It’s difficult to talk about exactly what is wrong because I don’t really understand it myself, and it all seems way too vast and deep-rooted to be able to put into words. They can not stick me on meds if I haven’t even told them I’m not okay, and it all feels a bit too late now anyway; like the damage has already been done. I am waiting for my GCSE results at the moment and I am hoping so much that I’ll get good enough results to get into college, despite the fact that I’m a bit doubtful. I feel like college will serve as a chance for me to show my ability and maybe that will be fulfilling enough for me to move on from all my issues and just live. But like you said, I’ve just got to get there. And that’s the hard part.
hehehehehe… i got your email…
im so happy to see your back!!!
yay!!!
i should have known silly me… duh on my part… ‘t’ should have given it away.. lol
i have actually just got back to help myself after a long break lol.. how have you been?
that’s part of the irony of the name, it’s a generic name that can and has been used in other cases, but is associated with one person in particular. At the same time, it has an identity (perhaps multiple identities), entirely distinct from the “real” person.