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• I’m fairly certain that I’m going to commit suicide. posted (2 years, 9 months) ago
  It is because my authentic self is completely in contradiction with the self society expects of me.…

• Where should I move to? posted (2 years, 10 months) ago
  I want to move to either WashDC, Seattle, New York, Chicago, Baltimore, or somewhere like those. …

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• I’m fairly certain that I’m going to commit suicide.
  

  no, its a philosophy grad student’s thesis paper from the university of arkansas, i believe
  - written 2 years, 9 months ago

• I’m fairly certain that I’m going to commit suicide.
  

  Explaining it entirely would require so much experience. Experience as in information obtained then analyzed and understood. Read Nietzsche, Schopenhauer, Sartre, Kierkegaard, Plato, Aristotle, Feynman, Einstein, Rutherford, Fermi, then the modern interpretations of it. Also, research the facts about the Judeo-Christian-Islam religions and question it as if it were myth. Political history and war, peace studies. Study the origin of civilization, the Sumerians and how deeply that original civilization still remains the basis of our own.
  
  I believe the best start for understanding this situation is the following thesis paper:
  
  http://comp.uark.edu/%7Empianal/Suicide&TheSelf.pdf
  - written 2 years, 9 months ago

• I’m considering quiting college.
  

  As close as you are, I would say just finish it. Statistics say that men are job-oriented. I think this is something that many men feel when close to graduation. The final credits are the most difficult, but the degree opens up many more opportunities than without. Also, a degree means greater job security.
  - written 2 years, 9 months ago

• another broken down relationship any advice on finding the perfect soul mate.i am 41 year old male had to many relationships.
  

  I’ve been through many relationships as well, and I’ve never ended one without good reason. The most difficult thing you have to do is examine yourself from an external point of view. It is easier to do with other people.
  
  My last girlfriend, a middle child, closest to her oldest sister. We broke up because she was always seen as dependent upon others, so she rebelled constantly against any dependence at all. Having a boyfriend, was, to her, a dependence, and thus the result was her requirement to be independent.
  
  Like I said, it is very difficult to examine yourself from an external perspective. You need to ask yourself… What am I looking for in a woman? That’s the easy part. Then figure out why you are looking for those specific traits. The more you discover about yourself, the more you’ll understand what you need in a relationship. Also, you’ll discover what you’re willing to fight for, what is a bad idea in the first place, and more.
  
  
  As always, this is just my opinion,
  Good luck.
  - written 2 years, 9 months ago

• I’m fairly certain that I’m going to commit suicide.
  

  Like I said, I just want someone to understand. Frequently, after a suicide takes place, people have so many questions. They doubt themselves and the society in which we all live. They cannot fathom why one would be pushed to such an extreme.
  
  Suicide, in the majority of cases is based in emotion in coincidence with a cataclysmic event. Because I cannot explain to anyone who knows me, as they will assume psychological delusion, resulting in institutionalization/imprisonment, I explain myself to this community.
  - written 2 years, 9 months ago

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