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porche 911/ carrera? or old saab?

this is all in theory… the worst that can happen is he turns u down

^^^^ dont do it regardless…. in the long run u will be called a sl[u]t… & that is not good

trust me… i’m 20 & i’m a guy… thats the nicest thing to do…hey. its ok to feel embarised… to us guys, that makes you girls seem cuter…. its a stratagy & it will work ;)

yea if u do, use protection… make sure he wares a condom, if he says he cant get u pregnat dont listen to him… we are all wizer & much older w/ experience… u dont want to have a baby at 14 let alone 16-20-22…. i have seen many of girls LIVES been ruined from having a kid…. & no matter what if he says he will be there for the kid, he will run… hahaha he’s waht 13? you 2 cant even get a job to care for it… it literally costs thousands for a kid…. but if u dont have sex you wont have to worry about all that that i just wrote :)

write him a cute note telling him how you feel about it & if he would like to go out w/ u somewhere some time… then take it from there

write a letter telling her your feelsing & then put it on her pillow…

yea… i know how u feel man… i have had my fair share of online experiences… long distance wise… lets see…. i probly had about 7-10 girls long distance wise that i talked to… online & long distance… i only met 3-4 of the girls.. the longest was livin in the bronx in ny & i was in NJ… it took 2 hours to get there by train…3 years later we broke up & was a waist of my time… the other girls i dont talk to & only talking to 1 or 2 of them now….
but there was this one girl that was stunning in every way & i let her go… even though she lived in floridda i wanted to be w/ her…. great family & everything… i gave her up & i think it was the worst thing i have ever done. now i am kicking myself in the balls & she wont talk to me… last that i heard of her she moved to verginia & times were hard… i would love if she would call me or even e-mail me & to this day i call her over & over agin… prolly 2-3 times aweek… sux when ur in love

hahaha i like that last sentance… i didn’t come w/ an owners manual either…. i think i’m broken… is there a repair manual?

how about writing a note?

england is a BIG place… i say dont worry about her, yea u know so much, but the chances of meeting her are slim… there is nothing u can do…. if she listens great, but if she doesn’t… her loss

ladies?

where do u live & where does she live?

ok… well does he know u? more info!

ok. lets face the facts. your 17. Why do you Really need to move out? just to get away from your family? & if u move close there is no reason cuz u will probly see them every day. how much money do u have? enough to pay $300+ a week? moving out is exspensive, thats why i still live w/ my mother & i’m 20…

i say stay there until you know that u can say yes to most of these questions.i mean what happens if u 2 break up? where do u think u will go?… back home into your mothers arms cuz you know she will be there for you. its only been 2 years… thats nothing… i was w/ my g/f for 3 & then broke up… u have your life ahead of you… just dont screw it up on a bad desicion